Looking for the right three people who are attracted to each other and interested in sexy three-ways can be tricky. When those circumstances come together in a way that works, all three of you should consider hooking up again, and perhaps becoming a long-term arrangement.
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We all know it’s very exciting to get together with someone totally new. But we also know sex gets even better when you’ve hooked up a few times. Awkwardness and first time jitters take a while to dissipate, and you also understand your lovers’ bodies better after making love more than once.
This principle is especially potent in the threesome. It’s challenging to find the right three-way, and when you do, deciding to get together from time to time into the future is a great move that will mean even better sex!
Reasons to Find a Long-Term Threesome Arrangement
Fantasizing
One big reason for this is that after you have steamy sex with one person or more, you get to fantasize about it, jack off, and be titillated by memory. This factor increases the intensity of longing and brings up all kinds of new ideas about what you want to do together. Letting that imagination play out means it will just keep getting hotter.
Positions
There are also a lot of threesome positions and fantasies and games to play. Even if you plan a whole weekend together, you won’t cover the gamut. The varieties of sexual experiences you can have with three in the bed are actually unlimited!
Variety
It’s true that it’s natural for sexual attraction to wane after someone’s been with another for a long time, and married couples complain after some years that they don’t feel the same way as they used to. But this concept doesn’t translate to a long-term threesome.
That’s because, in between hookups, some of you are involved with other dating experiences and no one’s worried about infidelity. If a couple are part of the long-term arrangement, they are investing against boredom by having an open relationships.
When three of you trust each other for a no-strings sexual arrangement, you don’t have to worry about discretion, disclosure, or any other concerns that can plague new dates and new sexual experiences. You don’t have to wonder if the chemistry will be right or if the emotional balance will be off kilter, if you’ve already established those things.
Unusual Situations
It’s also a long-term relationship that can benefit folks with unorthodox needs. Some people are seeking discreet sex outside of a relationship that they want to stay in, like my friend whose husband is very ill and can’t be sexually active. They both want to stay together but he suggested she play elsewhere.
Fun
Some people have threesomes now and again because it’s so much fun and can really amp up the heat at home for months afterwards. But some of us need this kind of outlet regularly in order to explore everything in our imagination. So when you find the right three, suggest getting together again soon and see where that might lead.
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