We all know that men want to meet women for threesomes, but do you also want to know what women think about threesomes? I asked some of my gal pals what their first threesome was like, and the responses were unique… and very honest. Check it out, boys!
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Q: What was your first threesome like?
Alison, 25: Hot. Hot. Hot. I was 22 and had only been with my boyfriend, since we were 14. It was and is still, true love, and opening that door has bonded us eternally because we know we don’t have to stray when things get boring. And they don’t get boring because we’re always super-charged from the excitement of trying new things and doing things with other people.
Frankie, 52: I was in my forties and still totally horny all the time, but my husband wasn’t into sex all that often anymore. I couldn’t accept this and conspired to turn him on.`
Don’t get me wrong, we still had sex, but I’ve always had an extremely high sex drive, and the normal two or three times a week wasn’t cutting it. So one day while I was sucking him off, I looked up and said, “I’ve been thinking, would you be interested in watching me make love to another woman?”
It’s like we’re twenty again, and that was six years ago. We have a few women we date regularly, and meet others online. We’re just ordinary, middle-aged, normal-looking people… no one would guess to look at us.
Some women are afraid of the threesome, but some of us know the secret solution to the fear is to go for it and have them. It’s the most amazing thing.
Stephanie, 30: My first threesome was horrible. My girlfriend and I both had a crush on this hunk on our school’s basketball team. He didn’t seem to notice either of us. Since it was likely that neither of us would have him, we decided to share him in an unforgettable night. We made him an offer he couldn’t refuse.
It was awkward. He came so fast that basically my BF and me were just rolling around naked on top of each other and didn’t get much of what we came for. He started crying and said he felt really guilty and degraded.
We felt rejected so we acted like those feelings didn’t matter but inside we felt like predators. Even worse, my bestie and I started getting really irritable and petty with each other after that. She would doodle naked chicks with lopsided boobs like mine. I told people she was a slut.
But it’s not all bad: it taught me everything I needed to know about how not to have a threesome. I’ve had a few since then, not with a friend but with sexy strangers. They have been great and I’m looking forward to more.
Laura, 34: It was hilarious, really, but didn’t feel that way at the time. It worked a lot better in the videos. Everything was awkward. My friend’s boyfriend was so nervous and polite and tentative that no one really got off.
But practice makes perfect! I’m single so sometimes I hook up with a couple through online dating instead of another single. If I’m just looking for a good time, it’s less complicated than explaining to some guy why even though we just had sex, I don’t really want to see him again.
Caroline, 40: It was amazing. It was something I had always wanted to try and so I did. Just the one time. I just wanted to experience it and we agreed in advance we would be happy with the once. A special memory.
Kelly, 26: I only did it once, and I still masturbate thinking about it. My guy’s not into it. The only guy in the world who isn’t. Go figure.
What was your first threesome like? Share your experience in the comments!
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