The prospect of opening up your relationship to a threesome or a group sex experience is exciting, but it can also be a little scary.
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That’s not to say you should jump into group sex whole hog. There are many considerations when it comes to sharing your partner with another man, and even a woman.
Dos and Don’ts of Open Relationships
Do know your own boundaries and share them with your partner. Are you comfortable touching and being touched by another man? What about watching your partner? How far can you watch her go with someone else? Discuss discuss discuss.
Do respect your lover’s limits. Maybe she doesn’t want to go down on a woman, but she’s willing to kiss and fondle a lady to fulfill your FFM fantasy—rejoice and respect!
Do focus on your partner during the experience. This might be when you are touching, kissing, caressing, or even eye contact as a voyeur. Make sure she knows who’s number one.
Don’t have a threesome unless you’re sure you can handle it. It might be your longtime fantasy come to life, but there are lots of issues that can arise that stem from natural feelings of jealousy and insecurities.
Don’t negate your partner’s desire for an MMF threesome. Women get it: you want two ladies to dote on you sexually or to play with one other while you watch. But hey now, lots of ladies want the opposite of that. Before you say no, listen to what her fantasy involves. Fair is fair.
Don’t engage in group sex without a few talks about expectations and feelings. There’s nothing worse than a group sex implosion during the act. You may want to come up with a signal that tells your partner you’re feeling uncomfortable, without having to make a scene.
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