Here are a few thoughts on the subject of having other people in your bed. Your partner and you might have found somebody you like getting it on with, but a few hot nights can get complicated if you aren’t careful.
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Tips for Casual Connections
What happened was beautiful, but it was also casual. Looking for solo time with this person after the fact can get messy. Your partner is going to be suspicious if you suddenly start making time with the other person.
Definitely don’t fall in love, go on a date, or have solo sex… unless you really want to fuck up the thing you have going. If you’re polyamorous people, it might work, but not without a whole lot of talking. And if your girlfriend and this other woman want to have sex, make sure you ask if you can film it. Wink, wink.
Keep it a secret. I know we live in a culture that feels a pathological need to share every single thing we do, but I think it’s way classier to do what I do, and let people guess. The rumor is more fun than the reality. Plus, women like you more when they know you’re protecting their integrity. What happened just happened between you three. Treasure that.
Unless you’re looking for a unicorn, you should probably not let the threesomes become a habit. Don’t let it happen too often or messy emotions will creep in.
Be careful if you’re adding a close friend to the mix… your friend or hers. Either way, things can get complicated. You can mess up your friendship or your love affair. Didn’t you read Othello? Someone could get choked over this kind of thing.
Do not skimp on the safe sex. Even if you and your partner are used to skipping the condoms, be wise and employ them for the threesome. Bear in mind that if you want to be super safe, a man should switch condoms when he goes from one vagina to another, from ass to vagina, and basically from any orifice to another in any way.
Like always, have fun! And fuck conservatives. Sex is beautiful and you should be fucking everybody.
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