Threesome Sex with Friends: Pros & Cons

I​ ​stand​ ​by​ ​my​ ​long​-​held​ ​belief​ ​that​ ​lovers​ ​can​ ​become​ ​friends​, ​but​ ​friends​ ​shouldn’t become​ ​lovers.​ ​

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As​ ​for​ ​the​ ​pros​ ​and​ ​cons​ ​of​ ​bedding​ ​your​ ​friends in threesomes,​ ​there​ ​are​ ​only​ ​cons.

Cons

Awkwardness​​ ​is​ ​sky​ ​high.​ ​This​ ​is​ ​someone​ ​you​ ​usually​ ​see​ ​fully​ ​clothed,​ ​then all​ ​of​ ​a​ ​sudden​ ​best​ ​buds​ ​are​ ​standing​ ​around​ ​in​ ​their​ ​birthday​ ​suits.​ ​It’s​ ​weird. You​ ​try​ ​to​ ​be​ ​natural​ ​and​ ​not​ ​check​ ​each​ ​other​ ​out,​ ​but​ ​there’s​ ​no​ ​way​ ​to​ ​harness that​ ​kind​ ​of​ ​curiosity​ ​once​ ​it’s​ ​been​ ​unleashed.

An​ ​overdose​ ​of​ ​​TMI​.​ ​Imagine​ ​the​ ​next​ ​day​ ​at​ ​work,​ ​not​ ​being​ ​able to​ ​get​ ​the​ ​image​ ​of​ ​unsightly​ ​moles​ ​out​ ​of​ ​your​ ​head—or​ ​worse,​ ​knowing​ ​that your​ ​friend’s​ ​ding-dong​ ​is​ ​only​ ​four​ ​inches.​ ​Again,​ ​it’s​ ​weird.

The​ ​risk​ ​of​ ​the​ ​friendship​ ​going​ ​bad​.​ ​Maybe​ ​the​ ​tryst​ ​was  awkward.​ ​Maybe​ ​you​ ​learned​ ​a​ ​little​ ​Too​ ​Much​ ​Information.​ ​Maybe​ ​the​ ​sex​ ​was incompatible.​ ​Maybe​ ​one​ ​friend​ ​liked​ ​it​ ​and​ ​the​ ​others​ ​didn’t.​ ​

All​ ​those​ ​bad​ ​things that​ ​can​ ​happen​ ​on​ ​a​ ​first​ ​date​ ​with​ ​anyone​ ​can​ ​also​ ​happen​ ​between​ ​friends—and in​ ​either​ ​case​ ​it​ ​can​ ​sometimes​ ​be​ ​easier​ ​to​ ​cut​ ​the​ ​cord​ ​than​ ​to​ ​carry​ ​on.​

​True, some​ ​first​ ​dates​ ​end​ ​in​ ​marriage,​ ​but​ ​do​ ​you​ ​really​ ​wanna​ ​take​ ​that​ ​chance?​ ​My advice​ ​is​ ​don’t​ ​do​ ​it—there​ ​are,​ ​as​ ​the​ ​saying​ ​goes,​ ​plenty​ ​more​ ​fishies.  

But​ ​let’s​ ​say​ ​you​ ​become​ ​friends​ ​with​ ​your​ ​lovers.​ ​Then​ ​it’s​ ​all…

Pros

You’ll​ ​reach​ ​​a​ higher ​comfort​ ​level​. This​ ​will ​not​ ​only​ ​help​ ​your​ ​performance​ ​but​ ​also allow​ ​for​ ​a​ ​willingness​ ​to​ ​try​ ​new​ ​things. It’s​ ​more​ ​​fun​.​ ​You’ll​ ​find​ ​you’re​ ​more​ ​relaxed.

You’ll​ ​feel​ ​more​ ​encouraged​ ​to​ ​practice. In​ ​doing​ ​so​ ​there’ll​ ​be​ ​​less pressure​​ ​to​ ​get​ ​it​ ​right​ ​the​ ​first​ ​time.

It will be easier to organize a threesome. Once you and your lovers become friends,​ ​​there will be no​ ​vetting,​ ​just​ ​all​ ​play​ ​all​ ​the​ ​time. A regular threesome is a wonderful thing!

Basically​ ​crossing​ ​the​ ​line​ ​with​ ​friends​ ​leads​ ​to​ ​regret.​ ​Crossing​ ​the​ ​line​ ​with​ ​lovers​ ​(with any​ ​luck)​ ​leads​ ​to​ ​friendship.​ ​This​ ​is​ ​how​ ​friends​ ​with​ ​benefits​ ​are​ ​made.

Best​ ​to​ ​save​ ​your​ ​dirty​ ​little​ ​secrets​ ​for​ ​the​ ​bedroom,​ ​not​ ​the​ ​boardroom.

Go ​Team​ ​Go!