Asking Permission for a Threesome

I have this weird situation. I had a lover two years ago, and she was one of the best women I have ever touched. Our sex was explosive electricity on fire, but she lives with this cool guy who is also into me.

We had a few threesomes, and they were pretty hot. I had no regrets, they had no regrets, and we all remain friends. They have lived together for years, but they have changed their sexual dynamic and are no longer having the open-relationship sex they used to have. As far as I know.

I’ve been hanging out with them again in the last few weeks, and I have felt the burning desire to be with her once more. Her body remains gorgeous and her energy continues to make me laugh and smile, but they apparently aren’t having sex with anyone anymore! Heavy sigh.

What complicates this situation even further is that I know he is still sexually interested in me. It’s NOT hard to read a man’s sexual attraction once you know the signs, especially if you know the guy.

So yeah, he’s still into me, I’m still into her, I THINK she’s still into me, and they are ostensibly still into each other. But I don’t know if any of us are ever going to have sex again! Oy vay!

What do you think I should do? Just ask her? Just ask him to be with her? Just ask her to be with her and ask him to not mind? I don’t think anything will affect my relationship with them by asking, but I don’t want to affect their relationship by asking. It’s a respect thing, ya know?

These desires remain burning, so I’ll take your advice on this one.

Love,
Addi Stewart

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