Funny story. Well, not that funny, but it’s sexy and freaky and doesn’t happen to the average joe. I was approached by a friendly lady a few months ago from the sex-work community, and I was told by her in no uncertain terms that she wanted to fuck my brains out.
I was like, “Thanks, but I’m not sure I feel the same way. Can we talk?” So we met up for coffee and got straight down to the business of truthful friendship. I was happy she was so up front with her feelings for me, but not being creepy or selfish about it. She’s cool and I like her energy, but I don’t feel the same attraction to her as she feels to me.
I told her that I was happy to just continue being friends, and that it didn’t mean that I wasn’t going to stop talking to her as a friend. And we did keep in touch over time, no doubt. We shared stuff online and spoke in DMs, but I wasn’t into her for some reason.
Anyways, lo and behold, just a few days ago, I was talking to her about a magical sex worker who I’d been in amazing threesome porn scenes with, and she replied, “Both of you just get your asses over here!” I said, “I like the sound of that!” And so did my friend.
I didn’t feel a need to explain my change of mind. I didn’t expect someone who I have had amazing sex with to add chemistry to two people who weren’t actually doing anything intimate exactly, even though the idea was there, clearly.
I thought about it and felt okay with the unique scenario of a threesome with someone who is a friend, someone I wouldn’t sleep with separately. We sometimes need parameters that open the threesome doors, and they aren’t always what we think they are! But we have to follow them if we want to have the threesomes we are happiest about!
So, the seed is planted and the watering has begun. Now, we just need the light of opportunity to shine on us with one fine day, and it will be another sexy threesome for the books!
Yay!
Addi Stewart
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