It’s not always possible to have a threesome—the logistics don’t always line up with everyday life. But even if the threesome is a fantasy for the moment, you can use it to supercharge the sex you’re about to have!
Fantasizing together can heighten sex, add variety to the routine, and create some floorboard knocking memories!
Here’s why a three-way fantasy can be as good if not better than the real deal.
The imagination doesn’t have real life complications.
The threesome I was in last week wasn’t exactly the sizzling sort that I was hoping for, because real life intervened.
First, I got my period unexpectedly the day of. We didn’t cancel, but not taking off my thong was really limiting to my pleasure. We could have rescheduled, but the reality was that it had been so difficult planning a session where all three of us were available.
Real threesomes have complications that you don’t need to account for in fantasy.
Sharing your threesome fantasies can increase intimacy and communication.
Your threesome fantasies are so familiar to you that you might not realize your partner’s are very different.
One friend of mine simply has no desire to be with another man—she HAS a boyfriend, after all. What she doesn’t have is big breasts, and she loved the idea of hooking up with a buxom blonde in front of her man.
He thought she would want to have an MMF threesome since she identifies as straight. But then again, so does he, so how was it so hot to think about watching a sweaty dude take her from behind?
This is the kind of hot stuff you can sort out together when sharing your fantasies. Being vulnerable and turned on together increases your intimacy and trust and improves communication.
The fantasy can be different each time.
Get totally horny telling each other all the amazing ways you can get tangled up with another man or woman. You never have to have fantasy fatigue because you can change the story every time!
Auditory storytelling can produce explosive orgasms.
It can be hard for a woman—or maybe even you—to get off when actually living a fantasy. I find it hard to come the first time or two that I’m with a new partner. I’m not shy, it’s just how I’m wired.
But spelling out the lurid details and listening to each other’s dirty tales can make both of you come like a volcano.
It’s a good way to test the waters.
What does she really think about bedding another babe with you? Is she more into the idea of an MMF or FFM? Do any of your thoughts on the threesome upset her or turn her off?
You can find these things out by test driving the threesome in a fantasy, and that way both of you can understand better what kind of scenario would work in real life.
Use past threesomes to heat up the twosome tonight.
If you’ve made some sizzling hot memories together, why not remember them in a way than enhances the memory you’re making right now?
Relive a sexy three-way experience that you shared by going through it, blow by blow, pardon the pun. Make her come hard by recalling to mind the explicit details that made all three of you scream and holler.
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