I mentioned to a friend of mine the other day that I’d been writing these posts about threesomes. Also that, in the course of doing my research (if you can call it that) I had been engaging in a few group sex encounters, just to get a feel for what they were about.
She, meanwhile, had been seriously considering getting into the phone-sex game. She is a voice actor and a dominatrix (in no particular order) and so has a way with falling into characters and giving them an immediate life.
Just for shits and giggles she started doing her innocent schoolgirl voice, and throwing some sexy daddy talk at me. It was very affecting. I’m not even into the daddy talk thing, so it made me more uncomfortable than turned on… but I admit it was an effective voice.
This lady and I have a strange history. We hung out for a minute when we first met years ago, and hooked up a little. It was hot, but also got weird fast. Still, we stayed friends, occasionally getting close along the way.
There was this one time I went on a date with this other lady to a poetry reading. The poetry was so terrible, and the people at the party so insufferably pretentious, that I ghosted out and went home. My date was so angry about it that she came over to my house after and yelled at me. This date was a social climber, and she had really wanted to impress these people. She felt I’d humiliated her.
My friend the voice actor had also been at the party. She also ghosted with me and went back to my house. She witnessed the whole yelling match with amusement, and it so delighted her that I had humiliated this social climber that after the mad woman left, she knelt down and sucked my dick for an hour as slowly and sensually as possible. It all turned out great for me.
Anyhow, I was telling her about threesomes and all. She told me that she felt the thing was that guys always imagine that threesomes just happen, and then they are over and everybody is happy. The truth is that, while they might just happen, they never end when the sex ends. If a couple is involved, the fallout from the threesome can last for months or years after of insecurity and passive-aggressive questioning about feelings and desires.
If a person is lacking in any kind of self-confidence, or security about the status of a relationship, the aftermath of a threesome can go on and on and on. It can eventually burn a love affair to the ground. On the other hand, it might be fine. Who knows?
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