A couple I occasionally get naked with recently invited me to a threesome orgasm marathon.
Keith gets really turned on by a woman coming—I mean, who doesn’t? But it’s kind of a fetish of his and his fantasy was a sexy FFM scenario where both girls would come at least three times.
If you’d like to incorporate multiple orgasms into your next threeway, here’s how.
Take your time.
Put aside an afternoon or night, and make sure no one is rushing off to work. You won’t bring both women to orgasm more than once during a quickie, and why would you rush when you have two babes undressed anyhow?
Take your time with the actual orgasms. Don’t make her coming a kind of checklist to tick off. Play with some back and forth, getting each of you somewhere close to the mark and pulling back. Let the experience be hot and heavy, not hurried.
Play with people you already know.
Since many women find orgasm awkward or impossible in nervous and new situations, no matter how hot you are or how loving and generous, having multiple orgasms will be unlikely.
It’s super hard for me to come with a new lover, even if I feel relaxed and my partner is unselfish. I actually find the expectation that I orgasm makes it even harder!
Believe me, I’m comfortable with my body, my sexuality, and with sex. But I’m far more likely to orgasm after we’ve been together a few times.
So if multiple orgasms are what you three are after, it’s a better bet to get together with a triad you’re already intimate with.
Relax.
Similar to point one, but different too. Make sure there is enough time for deep arousal, but other factors are important to relaxation too.
Make sure you are all comfortable. Consider the temperature of the room, have some melon and berries for light refreshment and some nice wines on hand. Turn the cell phones off. Warm up slowly, getting things started while still in your clothes. Make sure there is lots of kissing between all of you.
Focus.
The rapid switching back and forth of lovers, the tangling of limbs, the frantic pace and grabby, greedy motions, the frenzy of three in a bed—this is all hot stuff and our blood is boiling.
But the hunger of a hot threesome won’t make me come. To get there, all of it must slow down and the focus has to be brought to one woman. When the flow of events feels right, have all three of you focus on one of you at a time, allowing the attention and rhythm necessary to getting off.
Listen to her and pay attention to her body.
This might seem obvious but can get forgotten in the throes of passion. If you want a woman to come, or come again, the best way to know how is to ask her or to observe what she does or doesn’t do when it’s happening.
Pay attention to your lovers and do what works again next time. Ask her what she wants. Listen when she says she doesn’t want something.
Masturbate together.
When a woman is horny and comfortable, you can almost guarantee another orgasm if she can do it herself. Turn up the volume by having both girls masturbate at the same time—or all three of you, watching each other.
Use dildos, hands, or both—whatever she knows gets her off, then rub your cock while both women work on that pussy until you’re all three howling together at the brink of ecstasy.
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