How to Find a Unicorn Online

Are you looking for a unicorn but don’t know where to start?

Finding a unicorn can be difficult unless you know where to look. Online dating makes it easier than you’d think to find a third for a threesome or to join your relationship. But how do you choose the right unicorn dating site?

I’ve been testing and writing about niche dating sites for over ten years, and I’m here to help! Take a look at the unicorn hunting sites below to connect with local women. These are my recommendations for threesome lovers and polyamorous couples alike. They all offer profiles for couples and attract adventurous bi women.

Best Unicorn Dating Sites

Disclaimer: I’ve been a full member at all the sites below and am still active at CouplesDating and Fling. Once I know a site is the real thing and am comfortable recommending it to our readers, I sometimes use links that earn a small commission if someone chooses to upgrade. I costs nothing extra, just helps to keep our threesome blog alive.

1. CouplesDating.com

For a site to really be classified as as a unicorn dating site, it must have profiles for couples. This means not only can a couple search for their solo super babe, but unicorns can also be searching for couples they’d like to meet.

CouplesDating.com is the largest site for threesome hookups, and likely has the largest number of couple profiles worldwide. They offer a lot more features than you’ll find on vanilla sites. My favorites are the ability for members to stream video, the video introductions, and special interest groups.

And the nudity! Really, anything goes here.

You should note that Couples Dating is part of the AdultFriendFinder.com network. This is the likely the secret to their success, with the sheer number of sex-positive, poly-friendly members. The main difference is that Couples Dating features the couples more prominently, and also has less banner ads which is a nice bonus.

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2. Fling.com

Fling has been around a long time, and perhaps doesn’t come to mind when thinking about fulfilling a threesome. However, if you’re a couple you’ll find it an excellent spot to attract local unicorns. Again, this is due to the ability for couples to join together, and the large size of their community.

Like Couples Dating above, Fling.com is totally cool with nudity. They also have a cool feature that allows members to set it up so that they receive messages via text (SMS). And if you’re just browsing, you could always browse your way to the archive of explicit member videos.

3. 3someDating.com

3someDating.com is a newer site that accepts all genders, orientations, and couples as well. It has more of a social vibe than the average dating site, and even links to local events. You’ll also find that you can access more of the site before upgrading which is nice.

I was able to keep fairly busy between dates here; watching member videos and playing a few rounds of ‘hot or not’. You’ll also discover forums, blogs, and chat. I did find that where I live there weren’t nearly as many people as at CouplesDating.com, but I think 3some Dating is worth a look-see, particularly if you live in a bigger city.

4 Tips for Unicorn Dating Site Success

1. Put your unicorn hunting status right upfront.
   Be direct about your desires. I suggest putting the fact that you’re seeking a unicorn or threesome partners right in your profile title and/or description. Sure, you’ll deter some people from messaging, but you’ll also attract the exact people you’re looking for by making it easier for them to find you.
2. Create an enticing profile to snag your mythical creature.
   Once you’ve joined a site, you’re probably eager to get started. The first thing to do is invest some time in crafting an excellent profile. Unicorns are notoriously hard to find because so many couples are after them. Make your profile shine by filling it out completely, always adding photos, and being unique and interesting if possible. Give the people who message you some good conversation starters.
3. Your first message is key, don’t blow it.
   Sorry, but it’s true. Do not copy and paste a pre-written message to all the single bi women you think are hot. Read their profile fully, then create a message that touches on something she’s mentioned or one of her interests. It doesn’t have to be particularly long or overly invested, but do make it personal. That alone will make you stand out, entice her to read your profile, and hopefully message you back.
4. Enjoy the full experience to increase interest.
   Don’t get lost in the crowd. A site like CouplesDating.com has tens of millions of members and is a busy place. You can improve the visibility of your profile simply by taking advantage of all the extra features. Every time you leave a comment on a member video, participate in a chat room, join a group, or write a blog post, you increase your chances of connecting and also draw people to come see your profile. So have some fun, and increase your opportunities at the same time.

Best of luck! If you have any questions or want to discuss your search for the ultimate unicorn, let’s chat in the comments below.

xo Lola