6 Reasons Women Try Threesomes

Ever wonder what she’s thinking, or why some women explore threesomes and some won’t?

The reasons women experiment with more than one lover at a time are as varied as they are. But here are some common explanations we hear again and again.

6 Reasons Women Try Threesomes

1. She’s Curious

This is probably the number one reason women have their first threeway. It’s why we try a lot of things, sexual in nature or not. We are curious creatures and life is about variety and new experiences. Some women may have little desire to repeat or have frequent threesomes—they prefer relating one on one, one at a time, to a partner, to fully experience the sensuality of that moment. But that doesn’t mean it’s not something we want to try at least once.

When guys lament that many women were once open to threesomes but aren’t motivated to repeat them, this is why. We can enjoy taking two men at once, but it may not be our ultimate preference. We were curious, and that curiosity was fulfilled.

2. She Loves Sexual Adventure

There are lots of women who are sexually adventurous and up for anything. If some ultimately prefer to relate naked one on one, other guys might feel they simply aren’t enough, and that their lover always wants more—more frequency, more attention, more partners, more adventures.

It’s always wonderful when our sex drive and sense of adventure is perfectly matched to our partner’s, but more often than not, there are discrepancies in the kind and frequency of sex each person ideally desires. It certainly keeps things interesting!

3. She Loves to Please

This might seem like the worst of the reasons, but that depends. If a woman wants to please a man because he is coercive and insistent or because she is insecure, this is either not the threesome you want or you’re a douche.

On the other hand, secure confident women can be highly aroused by your excitement. Some women surprise a man for a special occasion by fulfilling his fantasies, and some are super turned on by the idea of doubling your pleasure.

4. She’s Bi-Curious

Lots of women are attracted to women. We don’t have to identify as lesbian or bi-sexual to find women sexy and enjoy the sensuality and charm of other girls. We often include women in our sexual fantasies.

There are times that we decide to have that experience. There are times we want to undress a woman, experience touching her breasts, experience her mouth and taste her pussy, or feel what it’s like to penetrate her with fingers or a strap-on dildo. We want to watch you enjoying this same feast.

5. She’s Open to New Experiences

Not everything is planned out. Some women just decide at the spur of the moment to seize the day. There are times we are presented with an intriguing sexual opportunity or request. Sometimes we turn it down, and at other times we say, “Why not?”

Anne-Marie never pursued the secret crush she had on a female co-worker. It was just a little lust that she enjoyed that made the work day less grueling. Maybe neither woman expected Liz’s boyfriend to proposition them both when they stopped at a bar for happy hour. Anne-Marie was the type to usually decline things and err on the side of caution, but that day, she surprised herself by saying she’d love to.

6. She’s Horny

Some women love sex, and there’s nothing behind her reasons but pure, unadulterated desire for more.

Why does your partner love threesomes? Ask her, and let us know!