There’s really three ways that you can find your way into a threesome, as I see it. No matter how you end up in one it can be a lot of fun—or maybe it will suck. It’s better to try, though, if you or your partner have been thinking about it for a while.
3 Different Threesomes
1. You’re in a relationship. Threesomes are a common fantasy for couples. It’s one way to add spice and adventure to the bedroom. It can also be the gateway to a more open, or even polyamorous relationship. Depending on how experienced you are, you might join a site like FindaThreesome.com, recruit a bi friend, meet someone at a party, or who knows what.
Inexperienced couples have to do a lot of leg work to find someone they both like, while more experienced couples can just be sexy as fuck and recruit people they meet out in the open world. You’ll find that things open up to you when you open up to them.
I will say, though, if you’re planning a threesome to save a dying relationship you will probably fail. You also need to talk a lot before and after about jealousy and sharing. Do your best and be safe!
2. You’re single and seek a couple. Guys can have all kinds of fun getting into threesomes with couples. The whole cuckold fantasy is huge. A lot of guys just want to see their wife fuck another man. Some straight guys want to get a little bi, but they need a woman present as a bit of ham between two slices of bread is huge.
Having two women service him is another hot fantasy, or watching them lather each other in the tub while making out dripping wet is… well, I better stop or I’ll need to pause and take care of myself…
Obviously all of the above applies to guy couples too. You know that already!
If you’re a single and getting with a couple then you might want to avoid insane, damaged couples where jealousy and problems run right on the surface. We love sex but hate drama, friends!
3. You’re single and fucking two other singles. Maybe you’re all strangers, or just horny friends. These can be some of the most adventurous types of threesomes because you’ll be exploring and getting to know each other intimately for the first time.
Wear protection and have fun. You are fucking awesome!
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