Think threesomes are something all guys want and women aren’t that into? Think again.
The ménage à trois is an incredibly common fantasy among women. According to many surveys and studies, it is as popular or more popular than “submission” or “being ravaged.” Most women fantasize about threesomes a lot.
Why Women Love the Threesome
A threesome means new partners.
Not far behind your excitement of “watching two babes muff diving” is her thrill of fucking another woman or man. Novelty and variety are easy sources of sexual arousal. And if you’ve been in a relationship with someone for years and years, a threesome can supercharge your one-on-one sex like nothing else.
She gets to take you to your limit.
Witnessing a man’s arousal is an incredible turn on for women. If you’re not into it, or act like it’s nothing special, we can’t feel much at all. I may as well stay home and make love to my vibrator if my guy isn’t turned on!
When you share another woman—or watch me take a thrilling pounding from your bestie—that heightened horniness I witness you experience takes me to MY limit too.
Women are more experimental with same-sex sex.
A lot of women are incredibly aroused by fantasizing about or by playing around with other women. We may or may not identify as lesbians, bisexual, bicurious, whatever. Women who are “straight as an arrow” are still often wired to appreciate female beauty and to feel curious about sexual experimentation with other women.
It might not feel “complete” to us to hop into bed with a woman solo, however. I LOVE dating women and making love to them, but I don’t really see myself as bisexual. The deepest satisfaction for me comes from a man, but having a man and woman in bed at the same time is incredible!
The excitement of watching is intense.
Guys aren’t the only ones who are visual creatures.
Women get turned on watching other women undress, or watching your cock penetrate another woman’s vagina. We can go crazy when we see two cocks in the mirror in front of us, one about to spear us from behind and one sliding slowly into her mouth.
It’s a special and rare event between partners.
We LOVE threesomes, but we don’t want them all the time. If we’re in a steady relationship with you, relating to you in bed is the main course. We want sex to be a two-way street and something we experiment and explore together. That’s why you don’t get a threesome when you’re constantly begging, or always pointing to some hottie walking by with a bounce.
If you aren’t into the one on one and always looking outside, she’s not going to open up and ask you for dessert. She’s still hungry for the real deal.
Threesomes are icing on the cake of a great sex life. If your sex life isn’t that great, work on that first—you’ll find that a threesome becomes more likely!
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