Here are a few things to consider before your plan your next threesome or before you find yourself in a spontaneous groups-sex extravaganza.
Think hard about who you want in your threesome. It might seem like a good idea to include a best friend, his or hers, or whoever’s, but maybe not. On the one hand, yes the trust is there before the fact. This is someone that you all know well and feel comfortable talking with.
On the other hand, when you see your partner really getting into fucking your best friend, how are going to feel about trusting that person after? Are you going to feel strange every time you see the two of them hanging out, talking, or giggling when you enter the room? It might not seem like it will get strange, but maybe it will.
It might be that there is nothing going on, but will seeing them together create doubt in your mind? You won’t really know until it happens, I’m afraid. Maybe it will be fine… but maybe it will make you lose your mind.
A stranger, however, is going to be a little more awkward. It’s harder to create the intimacy you might have with a close friend, but at the same time the damage control is easier to manage after the fact. Did someone feel uncomfortable with the situation? So what? You never have to see them again. That makes it easy.
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Don’t be so serious! It might be awkward when you’re all together, but so what? It’s supposed to be fun. Laugh at yourselves and how silly it all is. It’s just sex, after all. It’s just a game you’re playing. Enjoy the moment and live in it joyfully.
The more people there are, the more fluid there will be. You might get cum on you that isn’t your own. Roll with it. Keep tissue handy. If you’re doing it in someone else’s room (or your own) bear in mind that the sheets are going to get pretty gunky and funky and they will need a wash after. It’s only the polite thing to do.
I have a friend who came home the other day to find a threesome in his bedroom. It was his roommate and two of his best friends. It was a birthday party, so he cut them some slack, but he sure was angry that they didn’t wash his comforter after. I mean, you gotta be polite people!
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