My girlfriend and I kept talking about threesomes, but we didn’t know how to turn the fantasy into a reality. It is one thing to browse ads online, but actually meeting a person is another story. I always wanted the encounters to be organic and just happen naturally, but when is a good time to bring something like that up?
I don’t feel that sexy when I have to open my calendar and say, “Come by next Friday at 7:30, and we’ll all fuck after dinner.” I’d rather have things happen as they happen, but I wasn’t sure how to arrange it.
I knew my girlfriend had some experience with other women, and there were a couple of girls she had crushes on before we began dating. During sex I would sometimes mention these girls. I would say, as I was massaging her clit and kissing her that I was going to come home, blindfold her, and then have a surprise woman appear there, kissing and stroking her.
She would feel the naked breasts of this woman pressing against her own as they kissed. She would feel this woman lowering her pussy down onto her face. I would fill the room with sexual possibility and my girlfriend would get extremely wet.
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I figured the best way to manage this would be to start inviting select people over for dinner, giving them a few glasses of wine and just chatting about open relationships to see how things went. I would steer the conversation to see how down these people would be with sticking around and playing with us.
I figured this would be better than hooking up with strangers because you never know how respectful a stranger will be of your limits.
At the same time, to test where my girlfriend was at with the idea of open relationships and threesomes, I started doing little flirtatious things with other girls and then telling her. I started flirting in public, giving out my number, maybe even stealing a kiss here and there. I was beginning cautiously to see if she was serious about letting me play. I always said my plan was to bring these girls home to meet her.
So far the whole plan has been turning her on a lot. I aim to push ahead and have another woman in bed with us soon, maybe as a regular playmate! I’ll keep you posted. Of course, when I told my girlfriend all about my elaborate plan she just said, “This is all so stupid. You can just join threesome dating sites.” I guess I’m old school.
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