If you are disabled, you may feel cut off from possibilities that are easy for everyone else. Exploring more of your sexual fantasies may seem like a fantasy in itself. Or maybe you’re happy in a relationship and haven’t considered a three-way.
Maybe you’re dating someone with physical limitations and you’re wondering how to fulfill your partner’s desires.
In any case, you may not have considered that the threesome is not only possible, but also a great solution to some of the complications that a person with impairments may face sexually.
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For people with physical challenges, and their sex partners, a threesome is an amazing arrangement. Why?
1. It’s a practical solution to some physical and safety aspects for the person with disabilities.
Someone in a wheelchair may be quite heavy or require very specific care and handling. He or she may be worried and anxious when dating that a sexual encounter could be complicated. But what about when two partners are both on hand to help? This can relieve a lot of stress, and allow everyone to have fun getting naked and feel relaxed pleasure.
2. Expanding our repertoire to include unexpected partners teaches us more about human sexuality.
For many of us, we just take for granted our bodies and sometimes get critical of ourselves or each other. Making love with a variety of people in different situations shows us how to be generous, and not to take anything for granted.
I briefly dated a wonderful man, a soldier who had lost an arm in war. Being with him made me empathetic to the fact that all people have sexual desires and rights. If we are attracted to someone, their disability shouldn’t get in the way. If we don’t know how to help or how to act sexually, just ask him or her to show us.
3. Threesomes open creative doors to allow a person with disabilities to experience his or her fantasies.
For some people, actual participation in sexual gymnastics might be demanding or limited. Being in a triad means he or she will still be able to participate sexually in the ways they are able. For example, they may have very vivid voyeuristic desires, and having the chance to watch two people make love could be very satisfying.
4. It’s a practical solution for the partner of the person with disabilities.
A cousin was in a terrible car crash many years ago and is in a wheelchair. She has limited use of her limbs. She and her husband are still deeply in love, but E didn’t want him to live without a complete and varied sex life, so she told him to find partners on the side.
He turned that down and offered a better solution—inviting a third partner into their sex life. Now he is able to enjoy hand jobs or have a woman on top, and he doesn’t have to share that pleasure without his wife. He also has more help for undressing his wife, lifting her, and making sure she is safe and comfortable. They have enjoyed a very spicy sex life—something my cousin says she would have died without.
A fulfilling sexual life is just as important to a person with disabilities as to anyone else. If you or your date face some physical challenges, consider how a threesome could make things easier, and then follow those dirty dreams!
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