Edging is all about teasing your naughty bits to the point of orgasm… then stopping short.
I hate the word edging because it makes it sound freakish. It’s basically foreplay pushed to the limit. And lemme tell ya, it’s effective.
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But it takes discipline.
All parties should be on board. Whoever’s doing the work must be tuned-in and responsive, and whoever’s getting the work done must communicate when things are getting close. No greedy-guts allowed.
Naturally you’ll start away from the naughty bits, focusing on things like breast play. But when you get down below, tease—don’t plow.
Sound simple enough? It is. Until you get close to cumming. It’s hard to stop. But if you do, do so at the last possible second.
Here’s why edging is so great:
Each time you stop, it feels just as intense as any orgasm. It’s an edge-asm. The more self-control you can muster, the more edge-asms you’ll have in a single session.
For guys who are getting edged, a “natural” cock ring helps. When you feel you’re getting close, squeeze the base of your penis. It’ll keep the cum in while cutting loose that orgasm feeling.
To take edging up a notch: Hold back on cumming for a while before the big day. The longer you can go without an orgasm (ix-nay the wanking for a while) the better the edging will be. The downside is you’ll be on more of a hair trigger. You might want to save this trick until you’ve had some practice.
The risk of edging: If you tease for too long (this isn’t measured by time but by individual body response) you could find yourself in the unfortunate position of desensitization. Then all is lost. For women no amount of friction will be enough, and for men the erection goes bye-bye. If you feel you’re becoming desensitized say so, then let ’er rip.
I recommend incorporating edge play into your own masturbation for practice. Get to know how long you can last and what your ultimate triggers are. Like all things 3sum, practice is key.
Unless you’re one of these people—like a woman I know and play with—who can deliver up to twenty orgasms in a session, edging is the way to keep the feel-good numbers up without having to spill the goods too early.
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