Everyone dreams about getting naked with more than one partner—it’s one of the most common, favorite fantasies among both men and women.
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But how do you actually take the dream into reality?
5 Ways to Make a Threesome Happen
1. Believe You Will
Seems obvious, doesn’t it? But a fantasy and a goal are two different things. Everyone imagines making a million—but the one who decides that’s what’s going to happen begins putting plans into place in order to get there.
We all dream of going somewhere else, but only some of us save for the plane ticket or visit an agency to look at the options.
Sure, the threesome might knock on your door when you least expect it—but not likely.
Turning I WANT into I WILL is the first step, and it’s not far from there!
2. Use Online Dating Sites
Technology has facilitated communication, vetting, discretion, and meeting. It can help you find what you’re looking for further afield, since people travel for business or pleasure, or don’t mind driving a town over. In this way, you can meet many folks you’d never see at the local pub.
There are many dating sites geared toward group sex. My last partner and I met our favorite third on CouplesDating.com, and she became a regular in our bedroom.
Take full advantage of what modern technology can offer for your sex life!
3. Be Proactive
You might be waiting a long time. Even if your best friend is dying to see his girlfriend straddle you on the pool table, the chances of him saying so are slim!
The number one secret of people who get lots of threesomes is not being a celeb look alike, or possessing a bionic cock, or having the most expensive car.
The secret is, the person who pursues his desire and asks for what he wants is the one who gets it more often.
Good looks, being a good lover, having a styling ride won’t hurt. But without a bit of risk-taking and the gumption to go after what you want, they’re useless.
4. Reject Rejection
Maybe you summoned the courage once, and asked a babe if she’d be into a menage a trios. Chances are, if she laughed in your face, or cried for that matter, you gave up.
Rejection is tough, whether applying for a job or asking a woman out. But think about—in any situation, if you let rejection define the future, no man would ever date after being turned down for the high school prom.
Come on, you know the words: if at first you don’t succeed… try, try again. Lots of women love the almighty threesome!
5. Persevere
The whole try, try again thing is really important.
Don’t make a pest of yourself, and lay off sounding like a player, but a sincere pursuit of your fantasies—of requesting what you want and seeking it out—is the only way you’ll get it.
Play the odds wisely, though. Take no for an answer, and don’t nag your girlfriend over and over, if you’ve committed to a situation where that isn’t happening.
But when it ‘s appropriate, don’t miss the opportunity to be upfront about your sexual desires and dreams. If you don’t look at online dating profiles with like-minded people, how exactly do you expect to cross paths with your dreams?
You got to put it out there!
Let me know how it goes!
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