Location, location, location!
When planning a sexy threesome, there are a few recurring options for where it can take place.
My place, or yours? Or hers? There are pros and cons to each possibility. Here’s the dirt on where to do the deed.
Your Place
The pluses are obvious here: hosting at your place is convenient and comfortable, and you don’t have to leave the house.
It’s more likely to be an option once you’re familiar with the others. Many women don’t want to hook up for a threeway at the dude’s house for reasons of personal safety, and that’s smart.
Drawbacks to this choice are actually bonuses in disguise—you’ve got to clean your bachelor pad, or hire a cleaning lady. Nobody’s perfect, but having a date-ready abode is a real joy.
If you are hosting, do laundry and have clean towels and sheets on hand, along with guest soaps, condoms, clean robes, snacks and beverages.
If buying and washing towels makes you want to cancel, consider the next option.
Hotel
The hotel is my favorite place to play with strangers. For women, it means they don’t have to give out their address to men they don’t know, and they don’t have to deal with dudes who overstay their welcome—it’s much safer than disappearing into an unknown address with people they’ve never met.
For gals and guys, the bonuses continue—the sheets are clean, and there are more where they came from. The towels are white and fluffy and in endless supply. There’s a mini fridge in the corner stocked with refreshments. And who knows, there may even be a pool and sauna!
The only real drawback of the hotel is that it costs money and can get pricey if you’re hooking up five days a week. Since most people aren’t that lucky, it’s probably a non-issue.
Her Place
Being the guest at her house for the threesome combines the convenience of the hotel and not having to do the laundry and cleaning, with something a bit more personal if you’re already familiar. You get to make love in her surroundings, and whether you’re bringing your wife or another guest, there’s a special intimacy in being in your new lover’s space.
Public Space
There are always surprise venues when romance blooms unexpectedly or an unanticipated opportunity arises for a threeway hookup.
Always use your discretion, no matter how horny you are! The biggest buzzkill is getting arrested and having to explain that to your boss at the morning boardroom meeting! Always ask yourself, Is this legal? before jumping on board in a public place.
It’s hard to plan ahead when something spontaneous arises, so use your judgement to determine whether you’re likely to be interrupted or might offend someone.
What are your favorite venues for threeways?
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