7 Tips for Undressing Your Threesome Lovers

It’s been a long time since a man took the reins and undressed me before sex, and this makes me a little sad. I brought it up at a recent ladies’ night out, and it was something that resonated with many of my girlfriends.

Women want men to undress them. For some reason, a lot of guys have become lazy when it comes to this facet of foreplay. Remember when you were a teenager and making out on your parents’ couch, unbuttoning your crush’s top or unzipping her jeans? Those were the days we ladies still think about.

Please bring this awesome part of foreplay back, especially to your threesomes. If you’re feeling a little rusty, here are some tips from the conversation I had with my gal pals.

7 Tips for Undressing Women 

1. Do it when the time is right. Make sure to begin with kissing and caressing before you reach for any zippers. During this time, you can think about how you will undress each  woman, depending on their attire.
2. Act confidently. Even if you’ve never taken a woman’s clothes off, act like you have. Sexual confidence is hot, and it’s okay to fake it ‘til you make it when it comes to the fine art of undressing a woman.
3. Take it slow. There is no rush when it comes to taking her clothes off because arousal is important for a woman’s orgasm. The longer the buildup, the bigger the payoff.
4. Multi-task your foreplay. You can undo buttons with one hand, while sliding your other up her thigh, or kiss her belly while unrolling her stockings.
5. Be gentle. By this, I mean don’t yank, grab or pull on any fabrics that look delicate. Nothing will spoil the mood faster than ripping a woman’s expensive skirt that she wears to the office for important meetings.
6. Pay attention to both women. If you do have the luck to find yourself in an FFM threesome, you will want to give both ladies equal attention. You can go back and forth, unless one woman is enjoying the show.
7. Accept your limits. Are you struggling to unfasten one of those teeny tiny clasps on the back of her dress? Do you always fiddle with the hook on bras? Don’t be afraid to ask for help if she hasn’t jumped in to save you already.