In fantasyland, everything goes hot, steamy, and perfect, with great chemistry, flawless bodies, nothing awkward, and feelings all in tact. But it’s not like that in real life.
Here are some complications in threesomes, and how to deal.
You Can’t Get It Up
Your dick was rock hard all week just thinking about doubling your pleasure. You got off numerous times imagining dipping your stick into one blonde and one brunette, or watching them writhing in front of you and licking pussy.
But here you are, naked with two babes, and your royal sceptre is a sleeping slug who won’t budge into battle no matter what you do.
Whether you’ve been in a dozen threeways or this is the first, your dick may not always cooperate. A sense of humor will set the ladies at ease and ensure the probability of it returning to life in time. Accept that this is perfectly normal sometimes, and keep a variety of dildos handy, because hard or not, the show must go on.
Another Man Wants to Touch Your Wife
You may have set this whole MMF threesome up because your wife wanted to bang another man while you jacked off watching them. She may also have wanted to watch the two of you experimenting.
Now you’ve decided that you’re not comfortable putting your cock in his mouth or vice versa.
This can be disappointing if you were ready to push your boundaries for your wife’s pleasure, but remember, you can change your mind and so can someone else.
No matter how awkward or disappointing the situation is, never expect any one to follow through an act they aren’t into. Allow the option for an exit door at all times, for any reason.
It might take a few sessions to warm up, or it might be time for a friendly handshake and to move on.
After the Threesome, You Can’t Think about Anything Else
Your girlfriend complains that you keep hounding her to make plans for another threeway and while you’re making love to her, scenes of being sandwiched between her and her best friend’s pussy keep coming into your mind.
It’s normal to replay the latest hot scenario over again in your mind. It’s also really annoying for a woman to feel like you can no longer appreciate sex one on one with her. How would you like it if she made you feel like you weren’t enough?
If you want to repeat the threesome anytime soon, work on making your lady feel sexy, satisfied, and woman enough. Let her come to the idea on her own.
The Chemistry Is Wrong, so Someone Feels Unsatisfied or Neglected
You see how many things that go wrong when there are two in the bed. Three not only adds that many more possibilities of pleasure to the mix, but also more chances for things to go awry.
Always keep a sense of humor and be open and communicative with new partners. If you sense someone isn’t into it anymore, don’t be selfish even if you are three thrusts from the big bang. Be sensitive and intuitive and act immediately on your guests’ needs, whether it’s for a glass of water or for everything to stop.
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