I talked a little bit before about etiquette for threesomes. I said that it’s good to meet your potential third person in public first and get to know them. I said that you should always be safe, and I said that the third person should probably get out after the hookup and let the couple reconnect. I thought I’d add a few more thoughts…
1. One way or another, there is always the question of haw gay it’s going to get. If you’re a guy and you have two ladies with you, it’s important to let them decide how much they are going to get in on with each other. If they don’t have experience or they’re not sure, then pushing things will probably shut the whole operation down. You don’t want that.
2. It’s wise to let the ladies take the lead. There are twice as many of them, so they should be the deciders when it comes to how they’re going to manage you, and each other. You can set the mood with wine, and music, and just generally try to be chill. You can say sly and playful things to get them interested, but ultimately they’re going to use their female bonding powers to decide if they will get it on with you.
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3. Make sure you pay equal attention to everyone. Not everybody will always be the centre of attention, and at the same time, not everyone can be with everyone all at once. The pair who are deep into it need to be aware of the other person. Don’t just leave them cold on the side of the bed.
4. If you are on the side of the bed, try to make yourself useful. Hold someone’s hand, or hair, or lick a nipple that is jutting out. Rub someone’s back, or talk dirty to the pair that are going at it. If you are busy fucking and you see someone sitting there, try to engage them—ask them to masturbate—try to keep the kinky times going.
5. If one of the people is your partner, you should probably cum into that person (unless she tells you otherwise). It will save doubt later in a number ways. Kneel both ladies down and ejaculate on their faces. Make sure that semen gets onto everything in the room.
6. If you’re done and feeling bored, but the other two are still horny, there are a few ways to go. If you’re the third party with a couple, you can always leave. If you’re one of the partners you should probably stick around and try to be helpful and engaged. You can’t just go and stream a movie in the other room while your partner fucks someone else… or maybe you can. It could be a whole new sort of fetish!
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