Are you planning and plotting your first threesome with your partner? Check out these tips that will keep your group experience from going off the rails.
Choose new partners, rather than friends. If things go badly, it’s going to be awkward later hanging out with that person. If it’s somebody you can’t properly ignore at a party two weeks from now, then don’t have a threesome with them.
Pick someone you don’t have a crush on. If one of you has romantic feelings for the third person getting involved, it’s likely to create all kinds of jealousy and hurt feelings. Try to pick people you have neutral feelings about, but still find sexy obviously.
Don’t keep riding if somebody falls off the horse. If one lover decides to leave the room, either stop or check in if continuing is okay. Going on while another person has departed is kind of changing the rules of the game, and can lead to weird feelings later.
Talk about boundaries in advance. Is penetration going to be okay? How far is too far? What happens if one person starts to feel weird and the other is having a good time? There will be lots of fun stuff to talk about after, but don’t forget to talk about any concerns going in.
Talk about where you plan to cum. Is it cool to cum inside the third person, or would this bother your partner Having a threesome is as much about interpersonal politics as it is about crazy sexual encounters. Who knew?
Use protection. If you don’t use it with your partner but do want to with a third person, how will that work? Also, if you’re a man doing it with two women, you’ll want to have enough supplies to go back and forth, front and back.
Skydiving, downhill skiing, or anything dangerous, can be incredibly fun, but you have to work your way up to it. Make sure you’re safe, and develop your skills as you go. Threesomes are the same. Have fun, and don’t do anything I wouldn’t do!
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