How do you make that threesome go from being a fantasy to a reality? I mean, you and your lady have talked about it. You have likely fantasized about it in bed. You might even have searched through dating sites for potential partners. The big step, though, is finding the right person to make it work.
Tips for Couples Looking for a Threesome
Join a niche dating site. At CouplesDating.com, men and women in open relationships are seeking singles and other couples for group sex encounters. It’s less stressful than joining a mainstream dating site and bring up a threesome with a stranger.
Go to a sex club. At a place like this there are controlled circumstances where you can watch other people having sex. You can practice flirting to the degree that you are both comfortable. It will be a good test to see if you are ready to take things to the next level. Also, you might well meet people that you’d like to keep in touch with in the future.
Host a swingers party. There doesn’t have to be any pressure, but if you can get like-minded people to come, hang out, drink, then who knows how soon the clothing will fly off. There are all sorts of people out there with similar ideas. The main thing is that everyone is looking for some kind of facilitation to help them take the next step. Maybe you need to be a leader, not a follower.
Be forthright. Try telling people who turn you on how you feel. Who knows, maybe they’ll go for it. If you’re a couple looking to hook up for fun, as opposed to a single guy, it somehow seems less creepy. This way you can avoid the harassment aspect and make it somewhat charming instead.
Don’t approach friends and co-workers. The awkwardness and jealousy it will create after the fact will be too much. Find new people, and try not to find creeps. Creeps need to stay celibate and out of the gene pool. Have fun!
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