I was out for drinks with some women from my yoga class, and as usual the conversation turned to sex.
Nadia was talking about some spicy adventures she had with her husband and a cocktail waitress on their second honeymoon in Berlin. She said it had been a wild impulse, that they’d never really considered branching out before. To her surprise, she didn’t feel the wifely jealousy society said she might. She felt turned on and revved up like never before, and since then, they’ve been having all kinds of incredible sex again.
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There was only one problem, Nadia said. After a week of steamy threesomes in Europe, she wanted more.
This didn’t sound like a problem to me!
But Nadia wanted to try a threesome with Scott and another man.
Now, it’s true that lots of men love to watch a woman getting fucked. Lots of you dream of double penetrating the hot housewife next door. And some of you dudes are seasoned pros at the MMF threesome.
But then there’s the rest of you.
I totally get it: the idea of you and your girlfriend licking pussy together makes you rock hard. The idea of you and your girlfriend sucking cock—not so much.
And even if you’re down with, “not that there’s anything wrong with that,” you just don’t fancy fencing another man, not even for your lady.
Still, Nadia’s got a point. Fair is fair. It’s all fun and games when your fantasy is going great. But what about hers?
If your girl is this horny and experimental, consider yourself lucky! Here’s three tips to be as GGG (good, giving, and game) as you want to be.
1. Lighten Up and Relax
Take the plunge with a sense of humor. There’s going to be another naked man in your bed. That’s funny. Threesomes may look serious on film, but really, they’re fun.
2. Remember, She also Has Insecurities
You may feel nervous about keeping it up, holding back your ejaculation, about pleasuring her, about comparing notes with another dude’s equipment. But you’re not alone.
She feels those same things when you’re getting busy with another babe. She worries about cellulite, how she tastes, whether you’ll be more attracted to the new playmate, whether she’ll know how to do it.
Before getting naked with two hot guys, she worries about you and whether you’ll enjoy yourself, how things will be afterwards—the whole nine yards. First times for ANYTHING are awkward. That’s normal.
3. Boundaries Are Okay
You’ve got to start somewhere, but you don’t have to go everywhere. Decide in advance what you might want to try and what you don’t, and stick with it. You might choose more next time.
And remember, most women aren’t going to ask you to fuck each other up the ass for her viewing pleasure! Even if she does want that ultimately, you don’t have to decide right now whether it’s something you might be able to do. Personally, I want both of you fucking ME, not fucking each other while I’m off fixing martinis or after-party espressos.
Let me know how it goes!
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