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Bending Boundaries in Threesomes

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Ask yourself, do you feel lucky? Well, do you?!

I ain’t trying to punk you off like Dirty Harry or anything, but I do want to challenge you a wee bit, right here and right now!

So you have your boundaries, and that’s cool and I’ll let you finish… but I want to ask: how malleable are your boundaries in a threesome?

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If there’s ONE realm of sexuality where the borders can drop in an instant, and one supposedly taboo decision can suddenly become the most desirable option in the universe in the blink of an eye, it’s a threesome. Yeeeeah baby, word to Austin Powers! And the question applies even more if and when you ask yourself: WHO is in these boundaries with me?

Some guys talmbout, “Oh, I’d never do a threesome with another guy, just two girls.” To be dead-ass honest, some of THOSE guys really need to get some sex education books to teach them how to satisfy ONE woman properly, much less fantasize about disappointing two at once, hahaha.

People who join you in the threesome shift the boundaries, depending on who they are and how you know them, as well as why they are there… but mostly the gender boundaries that people carry with their sexuality is what determines the rules that people choose to play with.

Statistics and experience proves that it’s more often women who are open to playing with anyone there, and that women are more sexually fluid than men, but that doesn’t have to always be so, gentlemen!

As a man who has been in FFM and MMF threesomes. It’s been educational and unique each time, but definitely different when there’s two men in the mix. Most men have a masculine aggressive energy, and it often feels like two energy beams aiming in one general direction for a majority of the experience… for me, that is.

Even though I usually kiss the guy a little bit in the threesomes that I’ve experienced, I lean towards generating attraction with the women, simply because I prefer women even though I’m definitely far past the “strictly hetero” segment of the Kinsey scale!

An FFM threesome generally has a lot of fluidity to it, and a lot of generosity, and for that reason I say: yahoo! A lot of interesting combinations of mouths/genitals/breasts/penis/vagina/fingers can combine for all kinds of goodness.

FFM threesomes are the Holy Grail of Threesomes for many people (not that all-women/all-men/trans people/etc. threesomes don’t happen, cause they sure do, AND THEY ROCK!) but FFM threesomes kinda have a bit of an advantage because the amount of options that are available, to put it inelegantly.

If you were feeling kinda froggy and wanted to have a leap of faith and contemplate more options, what would be your possibilities?

  • another man/woman
  • trans man
  • trans woman
  • lesbian woman
  • gay man
  • another person with strap-on
  • more hands
  • more toys
  • another person with BDSM gear
  • another person in costume

These are just a few of the ways that boundaries can be gently expanded in threesomes. And with the right people, it’s fucking awesome to explore, believe me!

Are you feeling lucky?

Pull the trigger! Get dirty and hairy!

Love,
Addi Stewart

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