Variables are everything.
God and the devil are both in the details. And when making threesomes happen, the details are exactly where all the dreams live… OR DIE. Die slow and harshly and painfully and brutally! But die, they must sometimes.
Nobody gets all the threesomes they want. If they did, they would stop appreciating the magic of three mouths and three genitals… and possibly four to six breasts, if not three penises or something funky like that, ha ha.
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It’s the EMOTIONAL CONNECTIONS that make all the sexual lube come together in the first place!
Without the communication and education and motivation to put everything into alignment, it’s not happening.
And some people just have these… THINGS… that will make other things not go into the thingy thing!
Threesome dealbreakers, is what I’m trying to say.
Some people just have caveats to their fantasies. And with threesomes, especially with poly couples who practice primary-secondary partnerships… this can become a thing.
Example: “We can have a threesome, but you can’t choose any of your exes. Or any sex workers. Or any one you work with…”
Or: “We have to have it while your parents are out of town. I don’t want to risk them coming home.”
Even: “We can’t have a threesome until I feel like my legs are more sexy. I just don’t think I can deal with you and another woman when I’m not comfortable in my own skin.”
There are other reasons too, but I don’t know them all. I don’t want to know them all! I just want the people to know that sometimes it’s two steps forward, one step back and one step left, before you get to the place you want to be: THREESOMEVILLE!
When you get there, you will be happy you dealt with any and every little detail you had to deal with to make everyone happy you’re together.
It’s not easy sometimes, but no matter what, it’s well worth it to deal with the little things. Because the little things become THE BIG THINGS if you’re not careful!
And you deserve the best threesomes your dreams can imagine.
Bonne chance!
In love,
Addi Stewart
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