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Popular Threesome Fantasies

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We all know the threesome is one of the most popular sex fantasies for both men and women. But what exactly are they thinking of?

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Here are some of the most popular threesome fantasies people are having.

The generic be all and end all—the FFM threesome.

Far and away the golden ratio of threesome sex fantasies for straight men and straight women is the two girls, one guy variant.

It’s as American as apple pie, as French as champagne, as red-blooded male as beer and Playboy. And women love this fantasy—I can attest to that.

For guys, it’s twice as much of a good thing. For girls, it’s the best of both worlds—we get to keep the all important man in the picture, AND we get to play with breasts.

Plus, the thought of how horny she makes YOU gets us all hot and bothered too.

The man, the wife, and the ex-girlfriend.

Dudes sometimes roam over past conquests for jerk-off material, and while a steamy hookup or fuck friend might stand out, nothing comes close to the taboo and titillation of other women he loved, and loved fucking.

And while you’re there, in your mind, the sex you had last night with your wife or girlfriend comes to mind, and pretty soon it’s all a hot tango together in your imagination.

The conflict and competition you imagine between the rival women is hotter too, than just generic chicks. The stakes are higher, so the payoff is more intense.

The boyfriend walking in and catching us with our ex.

The ex comes into play for women too. When we fantasize about a hot ex, it often involves you walking in and catching us in the act.

On the savanna and in the wild, mating animals are in fierce competition for us females and that raises our adrenaline, even if we’re just making it up. The possibility of “getting in trouble” also ups the endorphins.

Women love attention and we love it from men who find us attractive, and since we had so much sex with both of you at different times, it’s natural to combine that.

The idea of you going ballistic with jealousy satisfies a certain sadistic sex urge in our primitive selves, but then you get so horny you can’t help yourself and have to join in. It’s about a lot more than just seeing two dudes naked.

But you can relax—few women want this in real life. It’s definitely a fantasy that doesn’t play out the way we want in real time, and we know that.

The accidental interruption of the boss and hottie, and being coerced into joining.

All kinds of politically incorrect stuff runs through our minds and loins, so when it’s not real life, who cares? It’s extremely common to imagine being helplessly railroaded by someone in power.

We might never in a million years want to actually get naked with our boss or the cop who pulls us over, but the idea of somehow getting roped into it and being helpless against his or her demands and just yielding sexually to someone in charge is an age old allure.

We incorporate it into our threesome fantasies because it allows us to add someone else so that we aren’t alone in being commandeered. That allows us to come face to face with our fantasy subservience and not feel weak. After all, if we see something we’re not supposed to see, we couldn’t help ourselves, right?

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