Are you enjoying Pride Month? June is a notoriously slutty month of sexual liberation and celebratory action of all kinds, for all genders. And this year should be a bit different than last, considering we have more freedom socially. I know for damn sure there’s already a lot of us out here celebrating to the UTMOST.
I have already indulged myself to the festivities on more than one occasion, and have many more in store. I am going to celebrate the next few months as much as I can, and have sexy wonderful threesomes if I can! But just because it’s Pride Month, and we’re in a party mood, does not mean we should be irresponsible with our actions and behavior.
There is no pressure to have a threesome or any other extraneous sexual activity this month or during the summer, but I certainly encourage as many people as possible to bond and hug and squeeze and kiss and have as many sexy times as they feel comfortable.
Threesomes are going to be high on the list of things I want to make myself feel better about what we’ve been missing! But if it doesn’t happen the way I imagine it to, which is usually the case with threesomes, then I’m not going to pressure myself into anything.
For the people in Toronto, and those visiting, I thought I’d suggest a few places to meet people who might be into threesomes, just in case you feel friendly enough to reach out. No pressure, though!
4 Places in Toronto to Find Threesomes
1. Hanlan’s Point Beach
I took the ferry over to Hanlan’s yesterday, and met a woman in line who was super sexy and openly friendly to various intimate scenarios involving me and some friends of hers. I had a super successful polyamory-positive day at the beach.
Hanlan’s Point is a very open place to queer and non-traditional sexualities. Of course, it’s all about vibes and harmony, wavelengths and connections. You can’t just go up to anyone and try anything. It has to be balanced. But this place is so great for me when it all aligns. I was there with my heavenly dream poly lover talking about us and other people we cherish. Did I mention: Clothing is optional!
2. Kensington Market
There’s a lot of open-minded, beautiful people to meet in Kensington Market, and if you go there just to get a bite to eat, you could easily walk away with a friend to share it with, or the phone number of a potential date.
I played teasing-cute-eyes with someone I met there when I went last, a friend with a former lover of mine. It was very warm and open, and if I’d pursued it just a little harder who knows what could have happened. These options are open to you too! Talking about the culture and history and eclectic shops in this dynamic environment is a great way to make a new friend… or more!
3. Trinity Bellwoods Park
A very beautiful park with so many trees to sit under and eat, pathways, tennis courts, and dogs—so much space to enjoy playful activities that connect people in the fundamental ways. There’s a romantic vibe to this hubub of a park in the heart of downtown Toronto, and it’s just off Queen St. West where so many beautiful people congregate.
It might be a little harder to meet someone in a park than just on the street, but if you have a frisbee or a dog or some kind of connection bridge between people, it may be much easier than you think. This park doesn’t quite have any private places to do kinky things, but it does have enough space to simply kiss and get the fun started. It’s also accommodating to groups of people, so if you want to go there AFTER your threesome, that works too!
4. High Park
A slightly more sophisticated park that is also much bigger in size, therefore, quite ripe for sexy opportunities to do your thing. I can say from personal experience that sexy times CAN be had in High Park, especially at night during the summer when the stars are out and the trees are providing privacy. And if you’re there with friends who know how to keep it quiet, then this park can be a wonderful place to make memories of the most sexy variety!
It all depends on your confidence and ability to be stealth, which varies from person to person. And there is a risk of getting caught if you really want to try and have threesomes in public. But that’s partially a risk-reward scenario that pays off more from the higher risk you take. So if you feel like having sex near the cherry blossoms, then your secret is safe with me!
There are endless places you can go to meet people who might be into threesomes, or who might like talking about threesomes and know other people who are into them—you never know! It just takes a little courage and honesty, a lot of tact and awareness, and the right amount of comedy. But it’s not everyone who will be open to it, so really: no pressure.
xoxo,
Addi Stewart
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