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What No One Tells You about Group Sex

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Those who have never taken part in group sex often consider it to be a bit of an unapproachable mystery.

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I’ve also heard it described as unrealistic porno sex. Why don’t we start there.

Not Always Porno

Chances are when you show up for group sex, you’ll be in the company of those who are anything but “porno.” “Normal” people like group sex,too, and I doubt you’ll find many participants into triple-anal or a ten-cock bukkake.

Then again…

Group sex regulars will sometimes have a porno wish list, and for one night be looking to try double-penetration or, you guessed it, bukkake. In my experience things only get porno once the same group has been together for a while, are comfortable with each other and have graduated to the point of experimentation. But I assure you there is such a thing as vanilla group sex.

That’s What Friends Are For

Believe it or not, you can actually make friends at a sex party. I’ve made friendships that have lasted to this day. It’s not all about anonymous hookups (although you can find that if you’re looking for it.)

These events are organized, with guests carefully chosen. Or you might be invited by a friend of the host. You’ll meet others in the most intimate circumstances possible—it’s a connection like no other, I promise.

Then again…

Don’t expect to connect with everyone. It’s a social environment—do you make friends everywhere you go? No. There will be times when you think the couple from Toledo are wankers. Not everyone connects.

Disease-Free

Group sex doesn’t have to be a virulent cesspit of anonymous raunch. These are people just like you, sans communicable disease and (let’s hope) freshly showered.

Things go down in locations and neighborhoods where people feel safe. Skank is never required, and unsafe sex is never allowed.

Then again…

Sometimes someone slips through the cracks. Be sure to refuse access to anyone who shows up tweaking and looking to play unwrapped. And if a cesspit is what you’re looking for, well, those can be found too, if you go tumbling down the rabbit hole.

Go Team Go!

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