Erotic sensory stimulation and deprivation can enhance pleasure for three! Sensation play is about our whole bodies and discovering or rediscovering a range of touch by shifting the focus from the genitals to a more holistic concept of the body.
Sensation play is something we already do during sex, like touching and experiencing the tactile qualities of various textures such a lace or rubber or lube while massaging and teasing each other.
Sensory experimentation can be light and soft, or it can be extreme and kinky. By including sensory deprivation, other senses are enhanced. Sensory play is amazing and versatile for all kinds of sexy situations, and it can prolong the sessions and deepen our sexual imagination.
Sensory Play Ideas for Three
Tried and True
True blue sensation play staples are classics for a reason.
The humble ice cube is free, and an exquisite tool of torture and sensation. The shock of ice on a nipple, and the thrill for all three of you as the nipple quickens and buds—super sensual and sexy. Nipples are the perfect receptors for hot and cold play!
Think of the basic elements you see time and time again in erotic films or stories—things that have become so common that we wouldn’t think of them as unusual. The soft texture of a silk scarf, brushed across breasts or used as a blindfold. Perfume, her signature, is something a man can take with him when he’s away from his lover. Or the sweet scent of strawberries or vanilla, a reminder of the bubble bath you shared together.
The elements of sense in sex scenes are everywhere. Rediscover them!
Scavenger Hunt
It can be fun and playful to have a scavenger hunt before your next threesome hookup. Meet up beforehand at a dollar store and have each of you check out secretly, bringing innovative sex toys that can be incorporated into the erotic night ahead. Think of it as a loot bag for a birthday party!
You can also do this at home, packing a small tote bag with goodies. Anything that can create an interesting sensation can be incorporated into a sensual experience.
Items that turned up at my last threesome scavenger hunt: a silicone whisk for an interesting spanking, first-aid gauze wrap became a blindfold and a mummified penis wrap, a plastic table cloth was draped between bodies to experience touching without skin contact, and pantyhose was used to dress up my friend’s husband for our amusement.
Wet ‘n’ Wild
The shower is a natural place to enjoy sensory play. The whole experience of touching and penetration changes when our skin is wet.
Lathering up three bodies and feeling the warm stream wash the suds away is sensual and sweet. Washing each other’s hair or leisurely massaging the scalp is also a wonderful form of foreplay.
Use the shower stream directly on clits, nipples, cocks, and assholes for masturbatory purposes to see what it’s like to climax under water in a hot tub or bath or pool. And if you haven’t tried masturbating in a group, this is the perfect time!
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