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Find Lesbian Hookups: Lesbian Dating Sites for Threesomes

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Looking for local lesbian partners but don’t know where to start? 

You might find yourself seeking a lesbian unicorn for a few different reasons. This post is for couples seeking a bi or lesbian third, lesbians interested in meeting couples or singles of any gender, and men seeking mff threesomes, or even a lesbian lover for their wife!

Basically, if you want a threesome or a lesbian hookup, I’ve found the sites where these desires intersect.

Meet Local Lesbians with Threesome Dating Sites

The best threesome dating sites feature couple profiles, are sex-positive, and have millions of members. Threesome Tips readers have been using the 3 lesbian sites below with success for years. Let us know in the comments how they work out for you!

Disclosure: I’ve been a full member at all these sites and am still active at FindaThreesome. It’s the only way I can comfortably recommend sites to readers like you. Once I know a site is the real thing, I sometimes use links that pay a small commission if someone chooses to upgrade. It costs nothing extra but helps keep our little threesome blog alive.

1. FindaThreesome.com

Find a Threesome is the largest hookup site for threesomes, hands down. Their secret? Plenty of couple profiles and the sexiest online experience around.

They offer advanced features like video introductions, live video chat, member blogs, and niche groups. I will warn you that there’s a lot of nudity at this site, so it’s best for those who don’t mind overt sexuality. More members and more couples, means more threesome opportunities than you’ll find on mainstream dating apps.

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2. Fling.com

Fling isn’t strictly a threesome site by any means, but they share the open-minded sexy vibe that is so awesome at Find a Threesome. More importantly they offer those essential profiles for couples, and have a very large number of members.

Any site that allows couples to join together, (rare), has the potential to become the perfect spot for arranging threesomes and meeting lesbian partners. I recommend creating a free profile to at least have a look at who’s local and looking.

3. LesbianPersonals.com

This one is actually a bit redundant because it shares the same database of members with Find a Threesome, mentioned above. Lesbian Personals is listed here because it’s well known and I get asked about it a lot. So I’ll just let you know the key differences.

Lesbian Personals features the profiles of women seeking women, whereas Find a Threesome features couples and single women of all persuasions. (This isn’t really significant because you can change your search settings once you join.) Also, Find a Threesome has less banner ads running inside which is nice. Beyond that, it’s just a matter of whether you prefer the branding of joining a lesbian dating site, or a threesome site.

How I Chose the Dating Sites on my List

I’ve been reviewing and writing about niche dating sites since 2003. By now I’ve learned that there are a few important factors that determine whether a lesbian threesome site is actually thriving and able to create real opportunities..

  1. Couple profiles are a must-have.
    This is a no-brainer, but it’s actually not easy to find sites that offer true couple profiles. They make your threesome search easier and attract more and more couple to the platform. This is why FindaThreesome.com dominates.
  2. Bigger is better.
    I’m talking about member base here, of course. More lesbian and bi women, couples and other threesome seekers, means more dates you’re going to be setting up. Niche sites often run thin for members, but threesomes are popular! This makes threesome sites like those above excellent choices for arranging your menage a trois.
  3. No fake profiles, no spam, no bots.
    I understand that some hookup sites use this crap to lure members, and it gives the whole industry a bad rap. The best sites don’t need to resort to these kinds of tactics.
  4. Fair pricing.
    The best threesome and lesbian hookup sites may not be free, but they offer next-level adult communities with features you won’t find on other dating sites. It also seems essential that there’s some kind of paywall as people are naked in there!

Tips for Success on Lesbian Dating Sites

Lastly, I want to include a few tips here for making your search worthwhile. Choosing a site to join is only the first step, so here are some ideas for getting the most out of your lesbian dating experience.

  1. Be clear and upfront.
    If you are looking for something very specific, be sure to put it in your profile. Even better, try to put your desires into your profile title. Don’t worry about scaring some people off.. the idea here is to get noticed by those who share your kink or want something similar. This tactic also allows others to find you by search.
  2. Make your profile shine.
    Further to the above, you need your profile to stand out once someone stops by. Do add photos, even if you need to hide your face for discretion reasons. Do fill out all the fields completely, and do be clear about who you are and what you seek.
  3. Respect boundaries.
    If you are looking for a lesbian to join you and your partner, understand that not all lesbians are going to be interested in this arrangement. It’s pretty obvious, but most just aren’t willing or wanting to hook up with a man as part of the equation. So read the profiles of others carefully, and consider bisexual partners as well.
  4. Be active.
    The best sites for threesome and lesbian dating have all sorts of features. I recommend you make use of as many options as you can, so long as they interest  you. Comment on member blogs, write your own as a sort of ad for what you’re seeking, enjoy the video chat rooms. The reason for all of this is two-fold: you get to enjoy more of the site’s offerings, but more importantly you gain increased visibility. The more people that see you, the more likely you are to make a connection.

I hope this post is helpful to anyone looking for a third, or wanting to play out their lesbian fantasies. I know it can sometimes feel like you’re after the old needle in a haystack, but with the right site you just might find yourself living out that fantasy sooner than you think.

I love your feedback here at Threesome Tips, so if you’d like to share your experience on FindaThreesome.com or the other sites, or suggest ideas that might help other readers, please comment below!

All the best, Lola. xo

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Jim
4 months ago

Lesbians really are a dime a dozen these days. And what about many of us straight guys that would just want one good woman to meet?

AffiliateLabz
4 months ago

Great content! Super high-quality! Keep it up! 🙂

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