Coordinating a Threesome with Your Lovers

So, I got lucky this week. Some distant stars aligned, and some magical moments manifested. I had lots of sexy fun this week, and let’s just say it was of an abstract nature.

Some stories are best left in the fantasy closet where my lovers and I will keep hold of them safely to warm our hearts and other yummy body parts, and some I will share. Such as this eye-opening revelation I had this week.

So many polyamorous sexy possibilities lined up that I had to make an executive decision (one that I normally don’t gravitate towards, but for the sake of not being stuck in patterns or being greedy, I chose the wise person’s path forward). That decision involved not combining the elements of a threesome, even though all the elements were within my grasp.

Sometimes it’s just not the RIGHT time, and to honor that is to really be able to enjoy threesomes when they DO happen.

I had a new lover from Ottawa come stay with me. We had discussed doing pornographic magic together, and lo and behold, the day of “test run” lovemaking came. It went off like gang(bang)busters! We had super chemistry, and she was totally open to exploring more things in more ways, including more people because she knew I was poly (they met a lover of mine when they arrived, and hit it off.)

Interestingly, I have a third lover who I’m ravenously passionate about, who entered my sex life to declare her dominance in my wet daydreams, which I openly accept. The sex is heavenly, and we can’t get enough of each other. She has also expressed a desire to do extensive and expansive erotic things with me.

The recent tornado in Ottawa had my new friend change her plans, and come down a week later. I had plans for my new hot lover to be together for an overnight rendezvous, so all it would have taken was for me to say the words for a very sexy magical dream to quite possibly manifest, but…

It wasn’t the right time to connect all the elements. The scattered plans just didn’t make me feel like I should introduce everyone—yet.

There WILL be times where these lovers and me explore others! Possibly all of us together, like it almost happened. Probably all of us separately, since we’ve already had wild sex apart. But… all in due time.

Patience is a virtue that holds many sexy secrets.

Sincerely,
Addi Stewart

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