Are you an exhibitionist? Or just a sexxxy voyeur? There are differences, and the subtleties create some extreme spaces to grow between experiences of the intimate nature… but please believe me, there is nothing wrong with either choice!
It’s just good to understand what one likes and wants out of a ménage à trois. There are people who want them all to be private affairs and never share the vibes of sharing. Sometimes, there are witnesses. And when there are, it can change all kinds of things in the threesome.
Some people REALLY get energetic and exhibitionistic about things when there are people watching, because obviously there is a show that is truly unlike the typical sexual scenario, where it’s just a regular couple making the beast with two backs.
When three people are there, the fireworks can really fly, and sometimes it’s a really BIG show. Are you ready to participate, or are you simply going to focus on the two people you have touching you? Because if not…
“Breaking the fourth threesome wall” as I like to call it, is when you share intimacy with the FOURTH person watching the threesome! And that requires a generous amount of delicacy and patience. It’s obviously cool if everyone is comfortable with it, but I wouldn’t try to push it too far and bring in a fourth player… unless everyone is TOTALLY okay with it!
Negotiating to add a fourth player is something that only the most trusting people can select, and it’s not a typical thing to try, unless it’s previously discussed, and preferably something happening at a sex club. Otherwise, a gentle kiss or a quick suck of a fourth person watching is simply FUN.
I have experienced this pleasure during a passionate threesome with a dominatrix and her submissive. There was a fourth and fifth femme to the side of the bed, just playing with themselves while watching our threesome.
I made eye contact with one of the voyeurs who was so fiery, I had to throw a kiss her way, which she approached me for, while I was being orally satisfied by the sub, as she was being fucked doggie style by her dom. Yeah, it happened, and it was SPECTACULAR.
Throw a kiss to a witness if the moment allows it!
Congratulations,
Addi Stewart
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