Some guys are enthusiastic and persistent about having a three-way until their partner finally agrees, saying she’d love to add another man to the spice mix.
Maybe you assumed one thing only: more chicks. But your lady is attracted to men like you, so it makes sense that her threesome fantasy might be about two guys.
I’ll never forget the time my boyfriend told me I could have a threesome for my birthday. We went to a club for drinks and I looked around at all the attractive people that it would be fun to romp with. He told me that as a special gift, I could pick whoever I wanted and he would go along with the surprise.
We’d been inviting some very sexy women into bed over the year or so we’d been dating. Indulging his fantasy of both of us licking her pussy at the same time until she came screaming was so hot that we couldn’t keep our hands off each other for days after these encounters.
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This was the delicious dish that was on my mind, when I saw the one. He was standing against a wall, alone, watching the dance floor, and completely unpretentious in jeans and a t-shirt. His body was solid. I could see the outline of his stomach muscles under the shirt, and his biceps strained against his sleeves. He had full lips and high cheekbones and a few days worth of stubble. His package looked pretty full too. Wow.
I want that one, I told my boyfriend, nudging him to look. I saw his eagerness and excitement deflate like a popped balloon when his eyes landed on my cowboy.
I was getting so excited thinking about running my hands all over a new body, being ravaged by the contrasting thrills of the new and the true. I could hardly wait to approach the stranger with our plan, knowing how turned on he’d be to hear this out of the blue. But suddenly, my boyfriend wasn’t in the mood. He was angry and said he wanted to go home.
This is when I realized that his idea of a ménage a trios had only ever been about him and his pleasure in shagging a variety of other women. It had never even occurred to him that a threesome could be about me, and that I might want to be fucked by another guy.
Needless to say, I didn’t get my birthday cake that night. I didn’t push the issue. There’s nothing less sexy than doing something when the other isn’t into it, too. But we still broke up shortly afterwards. My boyfriend simply couldn’t accept that I had fantasies about other men.
Lots of guys are driven wild by the thought of watching their wife sucking another man’s cock, or taking turns fucking her until she can’t take it any more. And some of you love to hear about how badly she wants the mailman or the studious stud renting out the basement.
How can you be sure this fantasy will translate into reality? Start by addressing it honestly. The right girl wants to respect your boundaries, but to do so, she needs to know what they are.
Once everything is out in the open, you’ll probably find yourself more open. Once you begin fantasizing about her fantasies, you just might find yourself making them come true and giving her the most memorable birthday of her life.
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