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Real Men Talk Threesome Fears

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Sex and dating can mean an assortment of anxieties. If you’ve ever wondered how yours compare to other men’s, look no further.

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Here’s what you guys worry about when it comes to threesomes!

“I hit the gym hard the week before the threesome my girl had planned with her visiting bestie, hoping to get on top of stamina and muscle tone to be my best for the big day. But I did too much, so I was in terrible pain and could barely move. Now I’m always worried about overdoing it when I’m getting pumped to hook up with hot chicks. It’s all about balance, man.” – Dave, 33

“My wife loves MMF threeways and I’m worried every time she brings home a new man he might have a bigger dick. Pretty basic stuff, yeah, but we all think about it.” – Jamal, 26

“I worry that my girlfriend has threesomes without me because we live in different cities, and I know she’s insatiable. I trust her and she’s not the type to lie, but she’s fifteen years younger than me, and I can’t help picturing her getting pounded while I’m away.” – Ken, 51

“There is more expectation of performance and endurance when there are two others in the bed and not just one. It’s simple math. I worry about whether I can keep up with everything, especially since it’s so exciting and I come pretty fast the first time.” – Milo, 21

“My biggest threesome worry is that I’ll never have one. My girlfriends have never been into it, and even though one said she would do it once ‘for me’ I didn’t want it to be something that she didn’t enjoy and just went for to please me.

Maybe I should have taken that chance when I had it! Now I’m single and finding the fastest way to lose dates is to say I’m looking for a threeway! I’ve joined a dating site, so I hope my worry will soon be a thing of the past!” – Jason, 29

“My only anxiety about hooking up for hot threesomes is that chicks tend to flip out on you when they see you getting nasty with another woman. It’s like they expect you to hold back or not get too into the third.

One girl got really upset with me after even though I played by her rules, and it was three weeks of stress and her crying and texting me at work all day, paranoid I was meeting the other woman we’d been with. It was a real mess.

Now I’m afraid every time that everything will blow up. I’ve found the solution is to meet women I don’t know and play that way, but it’s something fun that I do want to share with girlfriends.” – Matthew, 24

“I worried a lot more about everything—performance, my body, dick size—when I was younger, but I’ve mellowed over the years. Once, a woman walked out on me before a planned threesome. It was horrible, but you know what? It doesn’t matter now. She wasn’t attracted to me—big deal.

Taking the erotic as it comes takes practice, but the payoff is worth it. I was pretty hot when I was young and had stamina like you wouldn’t believe, but sex is way better now. I’m not perfect, and so I don’t have to live up to my expectations or anyone else’s—just enjoy what’s on the table.” – Carlos, 68

Tell us what you think! 1 Comment

  1. Jojo

    November 29, 2017 at 2:47 pm

    My worry is my husband is going to talk to other women without me there.

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