We can’t all be exhibitionists, but people who do like threesomes and group sex tend to worry less about how they look naked while performing. Still, masturbating is usually something most of us do in private.
My recent lover shared with me that his number one fantasy is watching women touch themselves, that milfs masturbating is his favorite porn.
I’d probably jerked off in front of someone once until this point. I’m not a lights-out girl when it comes to sex, but I don’t love the focus to be on me either. Well, like most things in the sexual realm, you not only get better with practice, but also more comfortable.
Because you never know what direction a threesome might be headed, masturbation might be suggested as a fun side to the main course.
4 Tips for Masturbating in a Group
- Get comfortable with an audience of one. Do what I did and masturbate in front of your girlfriend or friend with benefits before trying it in a group. Something I’m curious about: do men feel as self-conscious of doing this in front of someone else as most women I know do?
- Offer to masturbate each other. This is the best kind of circle jerk in my opinion. You can try sitting in a close circle, crisscrossing arms to fondle the person on either side of you. This is actually a fun challenge.
- Make a game of it. Speaking of challenges, those with a competitive spirit will get off on the idea of turning your masturbatory practice into a competition. Either see who can orgasm first, or last through edging. This can also be played in pairs, as most men get off faster.
- Bring your toys. All you need is your hand to make yourself cum, but toys always add a little something something. And if your gal is on the shy side, she’ll probably feel a whole lot more comfortable with her trusty bullet vibrator by her side.
How do you feel about masturbating in front of a lover, or two? Please share your thoughts or experiences in the comments!
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