There is something super satisfying about reaching the orgasm finish line at the same time.
If you want to experience that in a threesome, here are things to keep in mind, and tips on how to make it work.
4 Tips for Coming Together in Threesomes
1. Make Sure Everyone Is on Board
Simultaneous orgasms for three won’t happen spontaneously. There are too many variables. So if you want to come together, everyone has to be in on the plan, ready to hold back or speed up as needed.
It can also be stressful or too much pressure for a woman to “aim” for orgasm or feel it is expected. Such a goal could make it more likely that she won’t come at all. So check in with everyone that the goal of coming together is desirable before barking orders.
2. Don’t Be too Serious
Keep things light and stress free, with the attitude that you can try again next time if the timing fails. There’s no place to be disappointed when three are naked. Even if it’s a very strong fetish for one of you, keep your attitude light and open. Not making it together is a great excuse to have another threesome, after all!
3. Remember, It’s Not a Race
Even if you’re aiming for the finish line together, it’s not a race. All that visual stimulation is most likely to make you pop too soon, while the extra sensory details and novelty will actually slow many women down.
If you know it will be hard to hold back to accommodate her timing, you can jerk off before the main event. Or, if your partners are willing, a threesome can be a double whammy for guys. I like to start things off by giving fast shooters some relief straight up—maybe while you’re watching me lick her pussy super slowly. Then we can all aim for orgasm heaven at the same time, later.
4. Masturbate for Ultimate Control
The difference between women’s and men’s orgasms is that he has to focus to NOT come, and she has to focus to get there. This is why it’s easier for women to orgasm solo, even though kissing, touching, thrusting, seducing, spanking, watching, and showing are all way hotter than my hand under the covers. The distraction of a nipple will make me lose track, while it might make you explode.
That’s why the best way to guarantee all three lovers come together is to have a three-way sexy masturbation session as the grand finale. When you are satiated and ready for that moment, let everyone take their own driver’s seat. Communicate along the way so the speediest among you can hold back. Have a code word or a specific nonverbal cue like a hand up to signal getting close.
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