Your dick jumps to attention at the very thought of undressing two women at once. Maybe your ex-wife was a randy hell cat who loved riding two men, one after another, and you’re used to the excitement of the ménage à trois.
How do you know if your date or new lover is open to trying a threesome with you? Here are signs to watch for.
5 Signs She Might Be Down for a Threesome
1. She fantasizes about threesomes.
Fantasy and reality aren’t always destined to meet, and some people enjoy fantasies expressly because they aren’t real.
Even so, the woman who routinely dreams up three-in-a-bed naked scenarios and finds them exciting and arousing is more likely to desire the experience in real time than someone who finds the idea a major turn off.
If she shares with you the fact that she fantasizes about threesomes, it’s a great sign for you to have a conversation about exploring one together in real life!
2. She’s enjoyed threeways in the past.
Just because someone has enjoyed a sexy something before doesn’t mean she wants to now. For a woman, sexual experimentation can be very person specific. She might want to be tied up by her ex, but the scene does nothing for her with a current date.
Even so, if she’s experienced, and enjoyed those encounters in the past, she’s less likely to have the same fears and inhibitions as someone less open minded.
If she’s enjoyed threesomes before, find out where she stands now.
3. She brings up the idea of a threesome herself.
This is the golden buzzer of all the possible threesome signs!
It might seem like the least likely scenario, but it has been known to happen.
If your new girl brings it up herself, well, that’s a very good sign!
4. She’s bisexual, or expresses sexual attraction to women.
Of course, there’s no guarantee that a girl who is bi wants to play with other women at the same time she’s getting naked with you. Some women are more aroused when focused on one person at a time, whether another woman or you.
But lots of women love threesomes because they allow her to indulge her bisexual side when she’s dating a man. If that’s the case, it’s great for her and a big fat bonus for you.
5. She enjoys porn, especially group-sex scenarios.
If she finds it exciting to watch other couples or groups make love on film, there’s a chance that she’ll be open to it in her own bed too.
Watching porn together is a great way to gauge what turns her on the most, and to initiate a conversation about whether a threesome is in the cards.
Do you have any signs that you might add? How did you know your lover was interested?
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