I’m in my forties, and I can attest to the rumor that sex indeed gets better as you age. Although I don’t call myself a cougar, I have definitely had my share of relationships and sexual experiences with younger men, from ten years my junior to more recently—sixteen!
5 Things an Older Woman Brings to a Threesome
- Confidence. This is often the number one trait (for both men and women) that lures us to potential partners, and why not, it’s extremely sexy when someone carries themselves with a healthy ego. The cougar will be okay to leave the lights on, take charge if that’s what you like, and also tell you what she wants.
- Fearlessness. Most people who are into group sex, also know what their fantasies and fetishes are. They just might not have found the right playmates to make these come true. An older woman knows what she likes and won’t be surprised by your kinky suggestions.
- Experience. The cougar has been around the block (at least once!) and has learned a trick or two from all her lovers, even the not-so-great ones. I think it’s safe to say that with years of extra practice in the bedroom, I have become a better lover.
- Maturity. Threesomes with older women have less stress attached. She’s probably had at least one threeway before, so it’s likely to go smoother than a first experience with a younger lady. She’s going to know how to make you feel comfortable before the clothes come off and things heat up.
- No Strings. She may have baggage (who doesn’t!) but she won’t let it interfere in her desires and approach. She understands what a one-off is and if that’s all you want, you won’t have to worry about her coming back for more or any clingy behavior. Many cougars want the hassle-free sex that comes with casual hookups with younger men.
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