You’re in bed with two vixens, living the dream, hardly able to believe the nifty arrangement you’ve got going on. Every few weeks, the three of you get together for a hot marathon of lovemaking.
When you turned forty, you wondered if your sex life would head south, but it’s only gotten hotter. You can count a million reasons how this makes your life better.
There are just as many benefits for her, or more.
5 Group-Sex Benefits for the Older Woman
1. She Is Able to Explore Her Desire for Women
Sure, lots of us have bi-curious romps in college, but older women don’t need ten tequilas at pub night to make out with a mate. Lots of divorced women, for example, feel empowered to rediscover their sexuality, and it’s very common for older women to want to incorporate girl-on-girl sex into their repertoire.
While some choose women exclusively, it’s far more common that a woman who loves men wants to pursue ongoing sexual experiments with other women too. Since she’s into both, it’s only natural that a threesome is an amazing opportunity for her to indulge all of her desires at once.
2. Threesomes Can Boost Her Libido
Women in perimenopause (the decade or so before menopause) and menopause may experience periods of low sexual desire, but nothing increases sexual desire like more sex. This can be a vicious circle if a woman is locked in a relationship that has gone stale.
Whether she wants to rev up that relationship or seek new partners to play with, threesomes provide the novelty and variety that can stoke her flames back to life.
3. More Sex Improves Her Bladder Control
For both men and women, an irritating aspect of aging is increased urinary frequency and sometimes incontinence. There are lots of reasons for this, but strong pelvic muscles are helpful for both sexes in preventing or reducing this common complaint.
It doesn’t matter if a woman is an Olympic athlete or a couch potato—the best fitness for pelvic muscles comes from sex and nothing else. Use it or lose it, as the saying goes. She can get even more of that penetration that keeps her pelvic floor strong with an MMF threesome!
4. Frequent Sex Delays Menopause
New long-term studies show something that has surprised researchers: women who have regular sex have delayed menopause, and women not doing the deed naturally retire sooner.
It had previously been assumed that the age of menopause was predetermined by genetics and hereditary factors, but it makes sense that bodies adapt to their circumstance. No woman wants to menstruate forever, but our natural sex hormones of our reproductive years are important to health. Sex, therefore, is literally anti-aging.
5. Sex Improves Immunity
Sex is vital to a healthy immune system, and sexually active women take fewer sick days. While there is no replacement for an active lifestyle, eating right, proper sleep, and regular check-ins at the doctor’s office, older women can further improve their resistance to disease—including heart diseases—with good sex.
Increased Immunity is not just anecdotal—researchers have found that antibody profiles in sexually active women are higher than in those who aren’t.
These are five great reasons to jump into bed with an older woman, or maybe two!
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