5 Tips for Threesome Sex on Your Phone

If you’re like me and most of the world out there, you’re in a totally NEW era of sexual adventuring.

We already were in a realm where we used sexting, nude selfies, SnapChatting, OnlyFans, Tinder, Grindr, Her, Facebook Dating, OKCupid, and niche dating sites like CouplesDating.com to meet our needs. All of these sites and apps underline a new reality we’ve had to adjust to: using technology for sex more than our actual body parts.

So here we are, spending more time to make our Instagram pictures look as appealing as possible than we do on our actual faces. The online world is serious business these days! Whether it’s a source of income, for your beauty or your brains, or just for pleasure, the internet provides access to dating opportunities and social connections. It’s real and it’s the modern way of doing pleasure with others.

So how often have you had phone sex? Have you ever added a video element with a Zoom or another online chat service for a threeway scenario? However you combine and connect, it’s up to you, but I wanted to share a few spicy suggestions to make your next threeway phone sex ring even more bells!

5 Tips for Threesome Sex on Your Phone

1. Play with the Lighting

Any good video needs decent lighting to see the sexy things that are happening on it, and a threesome with your partners is no exception. Make sure you have a bright light or sunlight to provide a clear view of your body and other goodies, before you go to town.

If you have a colored veil, try draping it over the light for a romantic red-light show for your threesome contribution! There are also colored gels you can place over a camera’s lens for different effects. Maybe your partner has blue and the other yellow to create a psychedelic love affair that blows your mind and your genitals at the same time!

2. Try Audio Only

Ever skip the visual element to focus on your other senses? It’s convenient and fun to make home videos together sexually, but audio alone really pushes the boundaries of what you must do to titillate and inspire each other to the edge of orgasm.

Using other elements in the background such as vibrators or other sex toys can also help the sound effects get more… effective. The other bonus here is that participants are more likely to consent to recording the threesome as a keepsake, as it’s not as revealing.

3. Engage in Mutual Masturbation

Imagine that, hands only on a hands-free phone call! Now that’s a unique way to do a three-way orgy on the phone. And there’s so much fun that can be had by taking it back to high school and pretending you’re having a good old fashioned circle jerk together. No talk of intercourse or no desire to inspire penetration thoughts—just use your hands. So playful!

4. Attempt Something in Public

Getting sexy with someone while you’re in public also pushes the edge of suspense, and it will likely make the video shorter than usual, but hey, sometimes a quickie is all it takes! Maybe you go into an elevator or a stairwell or the bathroom at your workplace to make a hot steamy call to your partners. If you have the chutzpah to pull it off, you’ll have footage and memories that last for ages.

Maybe each of you is in your own public space, in different countries. Get creative with your long-distance loving!

5. Bring the BDSM

Kink and phone sex together? Yeah, it’s a real threesome plus tonight! Pull out the flogger and start smacking yourself good. Don your leather and latex to get that dominant energy out. It will be fun and naughty as hell, and as long as you have all established some verbal boundaries to keep within each other’s comfort zones, then explore the edges of adventure and erotica all you want!

Get dark and dirty with your talk while sharing your fantasies of what you will do with each other when you do finally meet up in person.

We are living in a weird time right now, but that doesn’t mean you can’t get your friends together on the phone for threeway playtime. Using your imagination, explore all you can…

xoxo,
Adhimu Stewart