7 Tips for Better Threesome Hookups

Threesomes may be a common fantasy for men and women, but our dreams can turn to dust when the real deal ends up awkward.

If you’ve left a threeway unsatisfied or with a bad taste in your mouth, you might wonder whether there’s a better way.

Here’s how to make sure your next threesome is as hot as the one in your head.

7 Tips for Better Threesome Hookups

1. Make a plan.

Although there’s real allure to spontaneity, there are too many variables for it to work sometimes. You might meet one woman at a party who’s into the idea, but you aren’t mutually attracted to any third. When you finally settle on someone you want to see naked, turns out she’s there with her husband and NOT interested.

What strategy and planning lacks in erotic spontaneity, it makes up for in anticipation.

2. Keep tabs on hookups who are open to threeways.

When you hook up with a hottie one on one, keep your eyes and ears open for signs that she is adventurous or into moreways. You could ask her if she fantasizes about being with a man and another woman at the same time, but make sure you don’t come across as if you aren’t enjoying the naked one on one.

If you know she dates couples or loves threesomes, ask her if she’s open for an invite later on.

If you had great threesomes together, stay in touch for future hookups. Better hookups result when you’re already comfortable with someone or experienced with them.

3. Be open to hookups with a couple, including MMF threesomes.

The horny man looking for two hot babes desperate to fellate him is a dime a dozen. But how many girlfriends out for martinis are looking for a threesome? Not many. There are, however, a lot of couples looking. They tend to be MF couples seeking a third. Be their fantasy man!

4. Come prepared.

A threesome can fall flat if you get the address wrong, end up without a clean towel, or can’t find the condoms. Don’t wait until the last minute to get everything you need together.

If you’re hosting, have a stack of fresh and fluffy towels, new toothbrushes, and clean sheets on hand so your guests feel comfortable. If you’re going somewhere new, double check all the info in advance to make sure you don’t knock on the wrong door.

5. Be easygoing and flexible.

When it comes to sex, a lot can go wrong. Try to go with the flow. How flexible are you? Will you miss out entirely if she unexpectedly gets her period, or enjoy getting half-naked anyways? Will you make your date feel comfortable if she has to reschedule because her babysitter cancelled? Women remember these things, and we’re more likely to keep your number handy if you can roll with the punches.

6. Prioritize her pleasure.

The key to the best sex is always putting her first. Respect her boundaries, desires, limits, fantasies, and moods. It can be tempting to start directing the show or to expect everything you’ve imagined to play out a certain way, but a better hookup will result if you consider her first in every way.

7. Don’t rush.

Hookups aren’t always lengthy dates that start with dinner and the movies, but you want to leave enough time before, during, and after for all three of you to relax, get warmed up, feel comfortable, shower or change, chit chat, etc.

Enough time and space to accommodate all three lovers and their needs is an important ingredient of threesome’s success. If you’re rushing to beat the clock, everyone will feel anxious or shortchanged.

What’s your top tip for better threesome hookups? Please share in the comments!