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Butt Love in Threesomes

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A great threeway that I had was all about the butt. It was super fun and sizzling hot to focus on a favorite body part.

My lover and I were invited to play with a guy who has a thing for chicks’ asses. We decided ahead of time to indulge him. We dressed up to accentuate that asset long before our clothes would come off, with skin-tight jeans and sky high pumps, and we were ready with a strap-on for each other, and to use on him!

If you or your dates have a thing for butt love, consider making ass play the central theme of a threesome. Here are some fun activities for the mix!

Strip for Your Lover

In a threesome, the possibilities are endless. For our butt-horny friend, we oiled up our asses and then slow danced cheek to cheek with our jeans still around our knees so our man could enjoy a long warm up.

Keep It Cheeky

Ass play for one, two, three or more can be many things. Some people want to indulge their ass love without penetration—you can decide on site, or in advance, to keep it cheeky. Some people only like ass penetration in a relationship. Some are committed to low-risk sex, even if they enjoy anal penetration, so they don’t want to.

Butts are still super sexy body parts even if no one wants to go beyond the surface, and ass cheeks, the crack, the perineum, are all very sensitive and respond to massage, spreading, slapping, tickling, licking, kissing, caressing, and stroking.

Try Spanking

Spanking is the obvious choice of fun for butt play. Try different kinds of spanking tools, and make sure someone who knows what they’re doing is present if there’s BDSM or anything serious going on. For playful, light spanking, use all kinds of stuff: ping pong paddle, spatula, hand.

Take Turns Rimming

A wet tongue, or two, against anyone’s asshole feels amazing because there are so many nerve endings there.

Rimming is a high risk activity for the harsh reality of parasites and bacterial infections than for traditional STIs. It doesn’t matter whether the butt is squeaky clean or you run into a bit of feces—these are microscopic organisms. Use a dental dam or plastic wrap, or do this selectively rather than frequently to lower the risks.

Finger Her Bottom

I love watching two women finger each other’s pussy, and I love watching porn where a guy takes his time to finger a woman properly. Anal fingering takes it up a notch. It’s a good preparation for full on anal sex, but appreciate it for what it is on it’s own.

You can feel the body’s nerves and every hesitation, and the subtle increases of arousal, plus that incredibly hot feeling when someone gives in and the body’s resistance yields and opens to you.

Put On a Show

Most women will tell you one of the greatest things about a threesome is that she likes to watch, and we know you do too. With a threesome, the variables are phenomenal. From butt worship to a full-on penetrative anal sex show, it can be you and him, her and me, you on me, or her and you.

Use a Strap-On

Yes, the ultimate sex toy. It’s absolutely the best anal play of all when I can fuck another woman up the backside, or we can do you.

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