Threesomes are all about foreplay. In fact, if you think foreplay is nothing more than an obligatory warmup before the main attraction, then you probably won’t enjoy 3sums. If you do enjoy foreplay, then here’s your opportunity to make it the main attraction.
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Here’s the thing—when locked in the throes of foreplay, it’s a constant reminder that you’re there with not one but two other people.
These are my faves, the go-tos:
Grease up with massage oil. You don’t have to cover yourself head to toe, but instead pick some prime body real estate and get started. Four hands on your body is a rush. Which brings me to…
Double your pleasure. Let’s say you have a super erogenous zone—let’s go with your nipples. You’re probably used to two hands rubbing them. But double-dipping with that extra pair of hands will turn it into such intense foreplay you won’t want to rush.
Try double-tonguing. Taking time with a tongue on each nipple is an exciting task that’ll stop you from racing to the finish line. Which brings me to…
Edging your way to the Big O. Allowing the foreplay to get you close but not quite close enough to an orgasm requires practice. Edging is the essence of threesome foreplay. Use your hands and mouth in tandem with your partners, and do your best to bring each other to the edge, then stop.
Linger on all the spots that get the deepest reaction, then stop again. If you’re not used to edging I suggest you practice it while masturbating. If it sounds like torture it’s because it is—I call it cum torture. Trust me, the payoff is worth it.
Blindfold for the ultimate anticipation. It’s not as though you don’t know who’s in the room with you, so it won’t be an anonymous scenario. Instead it forces you to focus on sensations, and the sensations brought on by foreplay can be enjoyed all night long.
Oil. Hands and tongue. Edging. A blindfold. These are your go-to threesome foreplay staples. Master these first, then you can start adding toys. And a bit of yoga. And more people.
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