There is no more versatile play category for threesomes, kinky or vanilla, than role plays.
Not sure how to make the most of your role playing? If you aren’t sure of how to get started, or the best approach, here are a few pointers.
Don’t be intimidated by the idea.
Role plays can be as easy or as elaborate as you want. It can be just a matter of wearing the right outfit—a matador, a cop, a stripper. Or you can give it a bona fide staging—dressing as the plumber, let’s say, and driving up in a utility van and overalls, then stumbling on a horny housewife taking matters into her own hands. From there, her husband comes home from work early, armed with his briefcase and a raging boner.
Role playing just means pretending or acting out roles. Become a rock star tonight, or seduce your boss. The options are endless.
Understand that role plays are amazing with three.
Role plays work great for couples, and can even work for solo sex.
But if you are in a three-way relationship, or planning a hot threesome soon, the possibilities of great fun and sizzling sex are endless. More characters make scene variations literally unlimited.
You could play a married couple arguing about his affair, when his hot little slut shows up unannounced and turns her charms on wifey. You could play the old doctor-nurse or nurse-patient classics, then switch gears with another nurse or medical secretary. Let your imagination lead.
Use role playing as the chance to explore all the fantasies you want, to try new ones, and to experiment with things that are impossible—losing your virginity again, or being a famous movie star with limousine groupies. Pretend you’re rich, or pretend you’re nineteen again.
Think of fantasies that you’ve been afraid to try or too shy, maybe a fetish you’ve wanted to explore but never expressed. It can be easier to try out kinky stuff when you’re playing someone else, and you can test out responses with the safety net of “pretending.” Nothing ventured, nothing gained.
Let the scenario surprise you.
Go with the flow! Don’t be rigid. Let it take you away.
While you and your lovers will probably discuss ahead of time some general fantasies and expectations, role playing is more about improv or delving into a character than about delivering a perfect script for a movie shoot.
You might decide together to play a scene featuring a painter and two muses. You’ve got a general scene that will obviously end in a hot threeway, but during the role play, one of your models picks up a brush and starts to paint directly on the other nude. It wasn’t in the script, but this is a magic moment and soon all three of you look like a Jackson Pollock painting.
Relax, and let yourself go.
If you feel silly at first, that’s great. Don’t stress about falling out of character. You’re going to end up naked anyhow, so it’s a win in every direction.
Enjoy that sense of novelty, and use the feelings to laugh with your partners. Feeling silly means you’re having fun, and that’s the name of the game in the first place.
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