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Public vs. Private Threesomes

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There’s a simple but rugged metaphorical parallel that explains the difference between having threesomes in public vs. threesomes in private.

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I do my best to focus so plentifully on the people in the scenario that it doesn’t matter, but let’s not delusionally fool ourselves too much…

It DOES matter, sometimes! It DOES change things, often. It DOES affect your mind, body and soul, if certain circumstances are in action.

It’s kinda like that thing about light particles in the universe: they actually shift when they are being looked at. Mere vision alters molecules!

That’s not even the metaphor I was discussing, but I’m just trying to paint the picture for you to see that it’s part of the reality we live inside: bearing witness has weight, impact and consequences for everyone who is both the beholder and the beautiful beast with two backs in the sack!

The metaphor I was describing is this: it’s like a sports team playing in practice versus the same team playing in a game on the court.

Having sex in front of people just adjusts the experience where external eyes causes the energy to shift in awkward and interesting ways.

Players just play different when they know fans are watching. Some moves are executed that are not attempted in practice, and vice versa. Sometimes some players can do things in practice a hundred times in a row they just can’t pull off in the game for some reason. And TRUST ME, this is exactly the same in sex.

In some threesomes, people have no problem rising to the occasion or opening their body to the possibilities of passion. But the very same partners, in a public setting like a sex club or an apartment orgy, and it’s a big fat nope! There are some unspeakable aspects to this, but some of it is tangible and understandable. Sometimes, it’s like the energy floats too far when other people are around, and the focus is fractured too much for the fun to formulate friction and liquid.

One of my partners and I have magnificent sex at her place constantly now, whereas almost all the threesomes we had in public were of varying satisfaction and dissatisfaction. The setting had SO much to do with this. Both my junk wouldn’t function, and her juices weren’t groovin’ at different times, when we were both in the spotlight with voyeurs either trying to touch in their turn, or just watching our desires burn.

Having threesomes with sexy witnesses CAN be great, because they can possibly attract more participants… but it also can attract distractions, which sucks ass and not in the good way. So there is also a benefit to the private showcase of a threesome, which is obvious enough. But knowing and enjoying both is also something I highly suggest you, you and you explore… tomorrow if you can!

Tell us what you think!

Tell us what you think!

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