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Sorry to have to poo-poo some classic foreplay standards, but I happen to think that porn and dildos belong more in the sex category than that of warmups.

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In my experience the crème de la crème of foreplay is a result of two partners working on the third, then rotating. Focusing on warming up one partner at a time not only provides plenty of feelgood, it also extends the foreplay. Consider the following:

Warm breathing finding its way into both ears.

Two sets of lips kissing the sweet spots.

Four hands gently touching the sweet spots.

Two cocks or pussies to enlarge and dampen.

That’s been my foreplay desert island list for a while, and it’s certainly done right by me.

I do have a few standbys. They’re not always as popular, but when all three parties are on board we manage to hit it out of the park.

Take turns describing your fantasies leading up to the session. Tell them what you want to do and what you want done to you. It’s amazing how making oneself vulnerable can heighten the stakes.

Incorporate a camera into the foreplay. This in combination with the aforementioned fantasy talk is an awesome lead-in, slowly building anticipation for what’s to come. And again vulnerability and exposure are at play. Very sexy. (To reiterate what I’ve often discussed: the camera does not need to be recording. For those of you who are interested in the idea but freak out at the thought of being recorded, framing the image can be enough. Try to send the image to your computer screen to give it a “live” feel.)

Masturbate in front of each other. Be sure to stick to your own bits, not your partners’ until the machine is up and running. Watching your partners masturbate also provides great insight into what they like, how they like it, etc.

Then whip out the dildos and porn.

And everything else within reach.

Go Team Go!

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