There’s a lot that can go wrong in group sex situations. The most concerning issues are related to jealousy, something that is a rational fear when you decide to share your partner with another man, and even a woman.
Let’s look at some jealousy-based fears that may arise in a threesome and what you can do to assuage them.
Your penis isn’t going to measure up. If you’ve got a bigger than average dick, this probably won’t be a worry. But in my experience, it’s a concern for most men. You all want to know how you measure against past boyfriends, and reassured that you are enough. Sure, she may enjoy having a third’s huge cock inside her, but you’re the one she’s going home with.
Your lover is going to fall for the other man. You can avoid this altogether if you choose a third that is not a friend, neighbor, or co-worker. Choose together from a site like CouplesDating.com, where discretion is valued. If you choose to embark on regular threesomes with someone because the sex is so hot, keep it strictly casual with set boundaries.
Your lover is going to turn gay. If you always engage in FFM threesomes because being naked with another man freaks you out, you might worry if you see how much your partner likes going down on another woman or having her nipples sucked. If she’s bi, she’s bi… it doesn’t mean there’s more likelihood of her leaving you.
You won’t be enough for her anymore. This is a common threesome fear of women, but men worry too that after engaging in group sex encounters regularly, one-on-one sex will feel boring and unsatisfying to their partner. You can avoid this by keeping your private sessions hot with romance and kink while exploring your individual fantasies, as well as having threesomes as a rare treat.
You will get angry when another man touches her. No matter how many times you’ve fantasized about how hot a threesome is, it usually doesn’t pan out exactly as it did in your imagination. If you are adventurous enough to try the MMF threesome, you may find yourself angry instead of aroused. Don’t lose your temper, just end the session peacefully. Maybe sharing your girlfriend with a man wasn’t such a hot idea, and now that’s good information.
Another way to deal with jealousy before it happens is to discuss boundaries and expectations with your partner before anything actually goes down.
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